Let God FIX Your Marriage FEARS: Step into His HOLY Design

Introduction: The Illusion of a Savior-Spouse

Are you paralyzed by marriage fears, waiting for a perfect spouse who fits your worldly ideals? Let God fix those fears and guide you into His holy design for matrimony. You’ve prayed for years, waiting for the perfect spouse to sweep you off your feet and make life complete. You’ve envisioned someone who fits the world’s mold, attractive, charming, and perfectly aligned with your desires. But what if you’ve missed God’s choice because they didn’t match your checklist? Worse, what if you’re expecting a spouse to heal your inner brokenness, childhood trauma, or unresolved conflicts? The truth is stark. Only God can make you whole. Marriage is not a cure for your wounds. It’s a crucible for selfless love. To embrace this sacred union, you must be prepared in mind for what you are entering. As Paul said, “Nevertheless, such shall have trouble in the flesh” (1 Corinthians 7:28). You must enter marriage with Christ and His Word abiding in you. Unlike the present reality, one should not marry or love someone for career prospects, financial gain, or a comfortable life, but to fulfill God’s plan through this union and to raise godly offspring. This article will shatter the myths of perfection and self-reliance, urging you to find healing in Christ and step boldly into God’s plan for holy matrimony.

The Lie of the Perfect Fix

The world sells a fantasy. A soulmate will fulfill every longing, erase every scar, and make you whole. But Scripture declares, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). No human, no matter how godly, can heal your deepest wounds. Expecting a spouse to fix your inner conflicts, whether from childhood trauma, insecurity, or past hurts, is a recipe for disappointment and relational strain. God alone completes you. “And in Him you have been made complete” (Colossians 2:10, NASB). A spouse is a God-given partner, a comfort and help, but not your savior. Jesus must always be your first love, and your heart cannot be given to anyone but Him, allowing you to love others with Christ at the center. The world teaches you to fall in love, a phrase that hints something is off. You don’t simply fall. You are meant to become alive in love. You choose to love the unlovable, even when your flesh struggles to bear it. Clinging to the myth of a perfect spouse, or expecting a marriage to fix you, is rebellion against God’s design, trapping you in a bubble of unreality.

This worldly mindset manifests in practices like living together and “tasting” intimacy before marriage, which is outright corruption. What is even more shocking is to see this mentality infiltrating the Church and the Christian sphere—it is like a termite working silently from within. Satan has penetrated this sacred space.

This is humanism and extreme individualism at its peak, rejecting God entirely. As Scripture warns, “men shall be lovers of themselves rather than lovers of God” (2 Timothy 3:2). It represents a total refusal to trust God, His plan, and His timing for our lives.

We must remember that you and I are the temple of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit of God dwells within us and is grieved when we embrace worldly, sensual, and devilish wisdom, as James 3 clearly exposes. Choosing this path is a rejection of God’s way and a denial of the sanctity He has called us to.

Incompatible!

Beyond the deception of a perfect spouse lies another worldly myth: the idea of incompatibility. I’d like to bury the word “incompatibility”—because in truth, there is no such thing. We are all incompatible by nature. There is no one out there exactly like you, and there is no one exactly like you. What bridges the gap is not natural compatibility, but Christ. We are called to put on Christ and His nature (Romans 13:14; Colossians 3:12–14) and to choose love.

Love is not a natural occurrence that simply falls into place; it is an intentional choice. Modern culture teaches us to search endlessly for someone who “matches” us, but the gospel calls us to grow into Christlikeness and actively love—even when it costs, even when it doesn’t come naturally.

Healing Your Inner Brokenness with God

Before you can love another, you must first be made whole in Christ. Inner conflicts, whether rooted in childhood wounds, rejection, or shame, must be resolved with God, not your spouse. I am not saying that you must be perfect before entering into marital life, but rather that we should recognize our weaknesses, insufficiencies, and inner conflicts—and step into it with God at the center. When we trust Him fully, He is able to bring into our lives the very person who can walk alongside us in that healing. Psalm 147:3 promises, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” God may use marriage as the beginning of a healing process. But that healing may not unfold in the way you imagine—it may come through fire and trials. For just as the crucible purifies gold and the furnace refines silver, fire is crucial to purge the impurities of embedded lies. Without it, true purity cannot be brought forth. Through prayer, Scripture, and surrender, God mends what no human can. When you rely on Him to heal your trauma, you stop demanding that others fill a void only He can satisfy. This freedom allows you to love without selfish motives, offering the selfless, Christ-like love marriage demands (Ephesians 5:25). Yet, under God’s guidance, marriage might help lift you out of your misery of inner conflicts as you work with the Spirit of God through His Word to align yourself correctly and to bring you out of unwholesomeness. Marriage can function like a pulley that lifts you up and a fire that burns all your falsehood to be the person God wants you to be. Only when you’re anchored in Christ’s completeness can you enter marriage ready to give, not just receive.

Practical Steps for Healing

– Pour out your hurts to God in prayer (Psalm 62:8). Ask for His healing and wisdom.

– Meditate on Scripture. Let verses like Isaiah 61:1 (“He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted”) renew your mind.

– Seek a Christian counselor or mentor to guide you through trauma with biblical wisdom.

– Surrender to the Spirit. Let Him transform your heart, producing love, joy, and peace (Galatians 5:22-23).

Repentance and Preparation for God’s Design

With a heart cleansed by Christ, you can prepare for marriage by aligning with God’s holy design. Have faith in God. If you have led a sinful life or committed fornication, which is sexual relationship outside marriage (a covenant relationship before God), know that you have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ (1 John 2:1). Come boldly to the throne of grace to obtain mercy and find grace (Hebrews 4:16). If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). If we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin (1 John 1:7). Confession must be followed with measures. The sexual union was not merely a bodily exchange but tied the souls in the union, for the twain shall be one flesh, they are no more twain but one flesh (Mark 10:8). By joining yourself to a person, you carry their spiritual and emotional baggage, such as guilt, shame, or spiritual bondage, in your flesh, and that must be purged. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can cleanse it. You must cut off all soul ties by the help of the Spirit of God. Be in His presence in fasting and prayer as the Lord directs you. For example, pray, “Lord, by Your blood, sever any ungodly soul ties from my past, and cleanse me from all unrighteousness.” Or ask church members for help. Confessions are powerful to eliminate all possible footholds of the devil that you have given him over (Ephesians 4:27).

Pray for the leading of the Holy Spirit to guide you to the right person. Your mind tends to wander, never satisfied with one, but decide to stick with one person with the intention to love them with agape love. Study the Word of God to see what He expects of you as a man or a woman. Both men and women have different roles to fulfill. If you resist God’s Word, you are your own lord, and your confession of calling Jesus Lord is false, deceiving yourself. It is easy to call Jesus Lord and worship Him with endless songs, but if your heart is not aligned with the law of the Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus, you are wasting your life. You must replace the law of sin and death with the law of the Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus, which will set your life on the right course (Romans 8:2).

Scripture provides clear roles for husbands and wives to fulfill God’s holy design.

Diagram: Biblical Roles in Marriage as described in Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3

Temperaments: God’s Design in Imperfect Vessels

God created each person with unique temperaments, reflecting His character yet marred by the Fall (Genesis 3:6-7). Understanding these helps you embrace a spouse’s imperfections, moving beyond superficial expectations. Here’s how the five temperaments shape relationships and require God’s healing.

Choleric: The Bold Leader 

– Confident and driven, cholerics lead like Nehemiah (Nehemiah 2:20).

– Pride or impatience can mask insecurities, often rooted in a need for control.

– They bring vision but may struggle to empathize unless healed of self-reliance.

– Surrendering pride to Christ fosters humility and love (Philippians 2:3).

Sanguine: The Joyful Connector 

– Warm and uplifting, sanguines shine like Barnabas (Acts 4:36).

– A need for approval may stem from rejection wounds, leading to shallow connections.

– They bring joy but need discipline to love deeply.

– Rooting identity in Christ frees them to love without seeking validation (Colossians 3:3).

Phlegmatic: The Steadfast Peacemaker

– Calm and loyal, phlegmatics foster peace like Abraham (Genesis 13:8-9).

– Passivity may hide fear of conflict or unaddressed pain.

– They offer stability but must confront issues boldly.

– God’s strength empowers initiative (Isaiah 41:10).

Melancholy: The Thoughtful Idealist

– Deep and precise, melancholics reflect God’s truth like Jeremiah (Jeremiah 9:1).

– Perfectionism or unforgiveness often masks fear of failure or past hurts.

– They bring depth but must release grudges.

– Resting in God’s grace frees them from despair (Hebrews 4:16).

Supine: The Faithful Servant

– Gentle and serving, supines love like Mary (John 12:3).

– Fear of rejection or bottled emotions may stem from early wounds.

– They serve selflessly but need confidence to express needs.

– God’s love empowers bold service (Romans 8:38-39).

Reflection Question

Which temperament reflects you? Are you expecting a spouse to fix its weaknesses, or are you seeking God’s healing to redeem them?

The Heart of Marriage: A Crucible for Christ-Like Love

Marriage is not a fairy tale. It is holy matrimony! It’s God’s holy design, a sacred test where you die to self and learn to love as Christ does. Enter marriage not with the intention of fixing your spouse, but with the humility to be refined and corrected yourself. True marriage is a journey with Christ at the center, sustained by prayer and grounded in obedience to the Word of God. If you resist these scriptural commands, recognize that it is not merely a marriage problem but a heart problem. Your flesh is warring against the authority of God’s Word. Marriage has a way of unmasking who you truly are. It will reveal whether you are a genuine disciple of Christ or simply one who honors Him with words while denying Him in life.

Think about this: why do you believe God commanded the husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church, and the wife to respect and be subject to her husband in everything? Col 3:18; Eph 5:22,24 If both were perfect beings, such commands would not have been necessary. The very fact that God gave these instructions shows that both husband and wife are inherently flawed, capable of failing and even acting opposite to what He requires. That is why He had to address these areas—instilling and demanding such virtues—because without His guidance, we would never live them out on our own.

That said, ‘as it is fitting in the Lord’ does not give a Christian the freedom to divorce at will, even if the other spouse behaves selfishly or follows their fleshly desires. As you’ve been praying—‘Break me, mold me, fill me, and use me’—know that God may assign a cup for you to drink in life. You can choose to accept it or reject it, just as Christ did. But remember, both acceptance and rejection carry their own consequences. And don’t blame God for your lack of growth or effectiveness in your spiritual journey when you reject the trials He allows and choose to live a neutral, safe life instead. True transformation comes when we embrace His refining work, even through discomfort, fire, and testing. As 1 Peter 5:10 reminds us, ‘But the God of all grace, who has called us to His eternal glory in Christ Jesus, will, after you have suffered a little while, perfect you, establish you, strengthen you, and firmly settle you.’ God’s refining work is always purposeful, shaping us for His glory and eternal design. Patience, forbearance, and a gentle, loving spirit are essential in marriage. Know that tribulation worketh patience – Romans 5:3 – But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing – James 1:4. Submission is never about weakness—it’s about reflecting Christlike love and maintaining harmony.

Of course, this does not apply if the relationship is violent, abusive, adulterous, or unsafe. In those cases, protection and wisdom must come first.

Love bears all things. Through the faith and godly conduct of a believing wife or husband, the other spouse—and even the children—can be sanctified, experiencing God’s transformative work within the family. 1 Corinthians 7:14

This is a faithful saying: For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But he that lacketh these things is blind, and cannot see afar off – 2 Peter 1:2-9. This is the only path by which the grace and power of the Spirit can increase and flow abundantly in you to carry out the will of God. For it is God who works in us both to will and to do His good pleasure – Phil 2:13. To access all that God has for us in Christ Jesus, we must align ourselves with His Word and walk in accordance with Scripture.

I want to make something clear. When Scripture says “wives, submit to your own husbands,” it’s not talking about blind obedience or treating a wife as if she’s less valuable. The original word used in Greek, hypotassō, carries the sense of voluntarily coming into alignment, creating order, not being forced into subjugation. It’s more about harmony than a struggle for power.

Notice also it says “your own husbands.” That’s intentional. It doesn’t mean women must submit to all men — it’s about the covenant of marriage and the unique order God designed for that relationship.

Then we have the phrase “as it is fitting in the Lord.” That’s the safeguard. Submission is not without limits. It only applies in the context of what is right before God. If a husband were to ask for something sinful, abusive, or outside God’s will, this verse does not require obedience.

So, Paul is really pointing wives toward an attitude of respect and partnership, walking in step with God’s design. And right after that, he gives husbands the command: “love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” That’s not about domination — it’s about self-sacrificial love, the same kind Christ showed the church.

Taken together, these verses show that marriage is not built on hierarchy for its own sake, but on a relationship of mutual love, respect, and order under God.

Why God’s Commands Matter

The Lord doesn’t hand down these commands randomly. There’s a theological and creational logic behind why He tells men and women to walk in their respective callings. Here’s the heart of it.

– God is a God of order, not confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33). Headship and submission in marriage aren’t cultural accidents. They’re rooted in creation itself (1 Corinthians 11:8-9; 1 Timothy 2:13). The husband’s role mirrors Christ’s sacrificial leadership, and the wife’s role mirrors the Church’s willing submission. This order is a living parable of the Gospel.

– Man was tasked with leading, guarding, and providing (Genesis 2:15). Woman was tasked with helping, nurturing, and completing (Genesis 2:18). These roles aren’t arbitrary. They are tied to our very design, physical, emotional, and spiritual. To rebel against them is to rebel against how God made us.

– Marriage is meant to sanctify us (Ephesians 5:26-27). By commanding men to love sacrificially and women to submit respectfully, God is chiseling away at the two great strongholds of the flesh. For men, it’s selfishness, pride, and harshness. For women, it’s control, resistance, and disrespect. The commands are perfectly aimed at our fallen tendencies.

– If a man refuses to love like Christ, it reveals his heart of stone and pride. If a woman refuses to submit and respect, it reveals her rebellion and unbelief. That’s why Paul says marriage shows whether you are truly walking in the Spirit or still enslaved to the flesh (Galatians 5:16-17).

– A Christ-centered marriage is a sermon to the world (Ephesians 5:32). It testifies of Christ and the Church. When husband and wife reject their God-given commands, they aren’t just failing each other. They’re misrepresenting Christ.

The Lord commands each gender this way because:

– It reflects His divine order.

– It cuts against the grain of our sinful flesh.

– It puts on display the mystery of Christ and His Bride.

Jesus said, “Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it” (Matthew 16:25). Hereby perceive we the love of God, because He laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren (1 John 3:16). This isn’t optional, but a mandate. In marriage, you lay down pride, prejudice, and selfish ambitions to love an imperfect person with God’s perfect love. Your spouse may not be the most attractive or charismatic, but if God has chosen them, they’ll be your partner in sanctification. Trust His promise, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4).

Overcoming Fears That Hinder Marriage

– No spouse is perfect. Their flaws are opportunities to reflect Christ’s sacrificial love.

– If you’re waiting for a spouse to heal your brokenness, you’ll burden them with impossible expectations. Seek wholeness in Christ first.

– Scripture warns against marrying non-believers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If already in such a marriage, rely on God’s grace to navigate it (1 Corinthians 7:12-14).

– Marriage is a “cup to drink” (Matthew 20:22), a faith journey where God equips you to succeed through His Spirit.

A Call to Action: Trust God’s Healing and Plan

If you long for marriage, stop chasing a worldly ideal or expecting a spouse to complete you. First, bring your brokenness to God—your traumas, fears, and conflicts. Let Him heal you through Christ’s love, making you whole. Then pray for a spouse, trusting God to lead you to the one He has chosen. They may not match your vision, but they’ll be a partner in God’s redemptive work. Don’t pick anyone you see or deem worthy; be led by the Spirit of God and let Him guide you. Here’s the secret: if we know that He hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him (1 John 5:14). Trust Him with all your heart and wait for Him.

If you’re married, stop looking to your spouse for the fulfillment only God can provide. Recommit to loving them selflessly, as Christ loves the church. Know this: marriage is where your self dies, and in that death you are made alive in Christ, united to your wife as one flesh. Marriage is a holy adventure. Take a bold step into God’s holy design, trusting Him to guide your heart and heal your fears, with your eyes fixed on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith (Hebrews 12:2).

WHO IS the Body of Christ TODAY? A Scriptural Rebuke to IGNORANCE and ERROR

Introduction: A Fire in My Bones

A reader’s words struck me like a thunderbolt, igniting my soul with questions that demand answers. He spoke of holiness and preparing for Christ’s return, but one assumption stopped me cold: the body of Christ shouldn’t shine “now”, that our glory is reserved for the coming world. He echoed Thomas Watson’s vivid imagery: we’re “called out of a prison to sit upon a throne” (“Divine Cordial”). But why now? If Christ is coming for a “glorious” body—not a feeble, worn-out, despicable poor shamble—why do we act like we’re still chained in the dungeon, waiting for a future crown? Scripture, not preachers or traditions, holds the truth about our identity, mission, and readiness. In these turbulent times, with whispers of divine judgment on the horizon, we must dive into God’s Word to uncover who we are “today”—a radiant, reigning body, not a pitiful shadow. Let’s strip away the leaven of man-made doctrines and ask: Who is the body of Christ, and why must we shine “now”?

Isn’t light most needed—and expected to shine brightest—when surrounded by darkness? Or do you expect it to shine brighter where no trace of darkness exists?

Our Identity: The Glorious Weight of Who We Are

Scripture doesn’t whisper—it roars—about who we are in Christ. Some believe our glory awaits Christ’s return, that we’re meant to limp along as a feeble, despicable shamble until then. But God’s Word begs to differ. Ephesians 5:27 declares Christ is preparing “a glorious church, without spot or wrinkle,” even now, through His Spirit’s work in us. We’re not a worn-out relic but a living force, called to shine “today”. We’re ambassadors for the King of kings, carrying His appeal to a dying world (2 Corinthians 5:20). Picture it: you and I, flawed and frail, are Christ’s hands and feet, entrusted to speak His reconciliation. We’re a “royal priesthood, a holy nation” (1 Peter 2:9), priests offering spiritual sacrifices, kings seated with Christ in the heavenlies (Ephesians 2:6). This isn’t future tense—it’s “now”. We proclaim His glory today, even as we await our full reign (Revelation 5:10).

Through Christ’s blood, we’ve become “the righteousness of God” (2 Corinthians 5:21), empowered to live lives that reflect His purity (1 Peter 1:16). We’re not just a collection of believers; we’re “the pillar and buttress of the truth” (1 Timothy 3:15), standing unyielding against a world drowning in deception. We’re God’s temple, His Spirit dwelling in us (1 Corinthians 3:16), a living sanctuary radiating His presence through holy lives and unbreakable unity (Ephesians 2:21-22). And don’t miss this: we’re “more than conquerors” (Romans 8:37), armed with weapons not of flesh but of divine power to tear down strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). Prayer, truth, faith—these aren’t weak tools; they’re dynamite, fueled by the Eternal Spirit who says, “Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit” (Zechariah 4:6).

The body of Christ isn’t a huddled group in a pew, but a mighty tree, like the mustard seed Jesus described, growing to envelop the world (Matthew 13:31-32). We’re a living, breathing force, Christ’s reign pulsing through us (Colossians 1:27). So why are we living like prisoners when we’re called to thrones? The idea that our glory is only future robs us of our present calling. Christ is coming for a bride “holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:27), and that work begins “now”, as we shine as lights in a dark world (Philippians 2:15).

Our Readiness: Lamps Lit, Eyes Fixed

If our identity in Christ is this glorious—ambassadors, priests, conquerors—our readiness for His return must reflect it. Jesus warned, “watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour” (Matthew 25:13). The parable of the virgins isn’t a bedtime story—it’s a wake-up call. The wise ones kept their lamps trimmed, oil ready (Matthew 25:4). But let’s not misread this through a fleshly lens. The oil is the Holy Spirit, and trimming our lamps isn’t a struggle of human effort but a prevailing, Spirit-sustained state. The fire in God’s temple—the church—burns by the Spirit’s presence, not man’s will (Zechariah 4:6). Readiness means abiding in Christ (John 15:4), walking in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), and anchoring ourselves in expectant hope (Titus 2:13). It’s daily renewal: confessing sin (1 John 1:9), praying without ceasing (Ephesians 6:18), and letting God’s Word transform our minds (Romans 12:2).

Yet, we mustn’t take the Gospels at face value or apply these verses blindly; simply put, We must interpret the Gospels in the light of the full revelation given through the Spirit, especially as unfolded in the epistles. Jesus often spoke in parables and prophetic tones—truths later illuminated by the Spirit through the apostles’ teaching (John 16:13).

The call to “watch therefore” spoke directly to the seven churches, like Ephesus, in their budding stage (Revelation 2-3). Back then, Satan’s throne loomed large in Pergamos (Revelation 2:13), and the church faced fierce persecution. But today’s church isn’t that infant body. Through Christ’s victory, it’s grown into a radiant force advancing the kingdom across every tribe and tongue (Ephesians 6:17). As Romans 16:20 promised, “The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet”—and that promise is being fulfilled not merely through the spread of the gospel, but through the Church’s equipping. The sword of the Spirit—the very Word of God—has now been placed into the hands of every believer. This wasn’t a luxury the early Church fully possessed; they were still being formed, still receiving the fullness of revelation. But what is an army without a sword?

Today, the Church stands equipped, empowered, and emboldened—no longer on the defensive, but advancing in victory. Like the stone in Daniel’s vision that shattered the world’s kingdoms and ground them to powder (Daniel 2:34–35), the kingdom of Christ has already begun to bring the kingdoms of this world to their knees. Through the sharp and terrifying tip of the Word, nations, tribes, and systems have fallen. The unshakable Kingdom is not coming—it has come, and it is expanding through every surrendered believer wielding the sword with divine precision.

What do you believe democracy and the Judeo-Christian world represent? Aren’t they part of the greater expression of Christ’s kingdom on earth—a restraining force against the darkness? Can’t you see the bigger picture?

You must understand this:
“God reigns over the nations; God sits on His holy throne.”Psalm 47:8
“The Most High rules in the kingdom of men.”Daniel 4:17

So, while we glean wisdom from those instructions, we must also discern what was specific to their time, rather than applying every detail indiscriminately today. Our readiness isn’t about cowering before a defeated foe but living as a glorious church, lamps ablaze, eyes fixed on the Bridegroom, unburdened by legalistic striving or outdated fears. And that’s exactly “why now”.

We’re called into the fellowship of His Son (1 Corinthians 1:9), an intimate communion that keeps our hearts tethered to Him (John 15:5). And here’s the good news: we don’t flee God’s wrath. “Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him!” (Romans 5:9, NIV). The bride doesn’t cower before the Bridegroom (John 3:29). Yet Scripture’s warnings to “flee” (Revelation 18:4) remind us to live separated from sin—because living according to the flesh is the root of sin, far beyond simply failing to keep a few commands; and to study God’s Word in context (2 Timothy 2:15), ensuring we’re truly in Christ. Readiness isn’t fear—it’s living so fully in Him that His return is our joy, not our dread.

It grieves me to see the Church losing her firm stance in Christ—clinging not to her royal identity, but embracing the worn-out garments of slavery she was meant to cast off.

Holiness: The Heart of Our Calling

Holiness isn’t a buzzword; it’s the heartbeat of our identity. “Without holiness no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14). God’s holiness is His untouchable perfection (Isaiah 6:3), and through Christ, we’re invited to reflect it. We’re declared holy in Him (1 Corinthians 1:30), yet called to live it out (1 Peter 1:16). This isn’t about our flesh striving—in our flesh “dwells no good thing” (Romans 7:18)—but about the Spirit’s work in us (2 Thessalonians 2:13). Sanctification comes through God’s grace, His chastening (Hebrews 12:10), and even trials that refine us (James 1:2-4). Our righteousness apart from Christ is “filthy rags” (Isaiah 64:6), but in Him, our spirit is alive (Ephesians 4:24), and the Spirit empowers us to walk free from the law’s burden (Galatians 5:16).

Am I suggesting that holiness shouldn’t be pursued? Certainly not! If the law could make us perfect, then Christ would not have needed to come. Holiness isn’t something we earn by obeying rules—it’s something imputed to us by God, affecting our spirit, not our flesh. It is through God’s chastening and the refining fire of trials that our inner self is purged and cleansed. Hebrews 2:10 and 5:8–9 reveal how the Captain of our salvation was made perfect through suffering in the flesh. As the Sanctifier and the sanctified are one, we too become what Christ is—by being united with Him through the sufferings and trials of life. This is the path by which we also are sanctified.     

The Word of God also plays a vital role—it washes us and kindles the fire necessary for transformation. Through this process, we become partakers of holiness and of the divine nature.

Peter urges us to “make our calling and election sure” (2 Peter 1:10), not by doubting our salvation but by living fruitfully—faith, virtue, godliness (2 Peter 1:5-7). This diligence confirms our union with Christ, preparing us for His return (2 Peter 3:11-12). But beware the leaven of legalism. Like the Galatians, we can be “bewitched” (Galatians 3:1), chasing holiness through human effort, entangled again in bondage (Galatians 5:1). There’s no man-made path to holiness—Christ “is” the way (John 14:6). Holiness flows from walking in the Spirit, and the continual renewing of our minds (Ephesians 4:23). It comes as we supplant the law of sin and death with the laws of the Spirit of of Life in Christ Jesus – Roman 8:2; and thus resting in His grace (Philippians 2:13). As His body, we’re “partakers of His divine nature” (2 Peter 1:4), His Spirit dwelling in us (Romans 8:11). A true believer, born again (2 Corinthians 5:17), hungers for God (Psalm 42:1-2). If that hunger’s gone, it’s time to examine our hearts (Romans 1:28).

Our Mission: A Body Alive and On Fire

Our identity and holiness aren’t for navel-gazing—they fuel our mission. Jesus didn’t suggest but commanded: “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations” (Matthew 28:19). Are we sharing the gospel in some form, teaching others to follow Him? We’re called to “shine as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15), visibly reflecting Christ in a culture cloaked in darkness. We’re to “stand against the schemes of the devil” (Ephesians 6:11), armed with God’s full armor. And as stewards of His gifts, we’re to serve one another faithfully (1 Peter 4:10), pouring out our lives for His kingdom. This isn’t passive—it’s war. It’s influence. It’s a tree growing to envelop the world with Christ’s love.

Application: A Gritty Call to Action

So, what now? Reflect: Which of these truths cuts deepest? Are you walking in the Spirit or grinding in the flesh? Pray: Cry out for God to renew your mind, to draw you closer to His Son. Act: Take a step today—share the gospel using the gifts and grace God has given you, confess a hidden sin, serve someone in need. “Trim your lamp” in this manner.
According to Scripture, the lamp represents our spirit. But how do we trim it in this present stage of the Church? When this command was originally given, the condition of the Church was very different. That’s why applying such verses today requires the illumination of the Holy Spirit—not just our own reasoning or efforts. We ‘trim our lamps’ by putting on the new man, who is created after God in righteousness and true holiness (Ephesians 4:24). It is through this renewal that our spirits are kept burning bright for Him. And connect: How do we balance grace and holiness? What does readiness look like in your life? Share below—let’s wrestle with this together.

Conclusion: Rise, Body of Christ

We’re not just a gathering; we’re the body of Christ—more than conquerors, God’s temple, a mighty tree rooted in His grace. Why now? Because the Bridegroom is coming, and our lamps must be burning brightly (Matthew 25:10). They must burn the way God intends—not by our own strength, but by the work of the Holy Spirit within us. Cling to scripture, walk in the Spirit, and shake off the leaven of legalism. Let’s be who Christ calls us to be—holy, ready, reigning in His grace. The world is watching. The King is coming. Rise up, body of Christ, and let your light blaze.

The CUP You Refuse: Is DIVORCE Saying NO to God’s WILL?

Introduction: A Sobering Reality

In a world where nearly half of marriages end in divorce, the sacred union of husband and wife is often treated as disposable—a contract to be broken when the going gets tough. Society whispers that happiness lies in finding the “perfect partner,” someone immune to flaws, untouched by the messiness of human sin. But what if this pursuit is not just futile but a rebellion against God’s design? What if the trials of marriage—the arguments, the betrayals, the silent nights—are not obstacles to escape but a cup offered by God for our sanctification?

We believe that “all things work together for to them that love God, right? Romans 8:28 But why do we fail to see the trials that we are put in to face in life can be in the permissive will of God? If you had been praying to break you, mold you and fill you and use you as many of us boldly sing in our hearts to make us like Jesus and the fiery trials cold be the answer to your own prayer? Some even pray to be baptized in fire—but do you know what the fire actually does? And when trials come we stagger and say no to the cup that’s been offered! Again you would pray Lord use me. Don’t you know that God won’t use you unless you are sanctified? It is His perfect will our sanctification – 1 Thessalonians 4:3. And it is a sure sign that the Father considers us His children – Hebrews 12:5-11; 1 Peter 4:1,2,12-14; Romans 8:17.

Family union is the best crucible that one could be tried and tested. If with a stranger or a coworker you have struggle with, you could move away, but a family member, as they are tied to your soul, if affects you much deep; the wounds cut deep, the betrayal cuts deep and the sorrows will be too that deep. And it takes sorrow-godly sorrow to purge your depravity – 1 Peter 4:1,2; 2 Corinthians 7:10. This is the place you could see your true self coming out as you get pinned to a corner and provoked to the tilt. Majority failed to see what’s going on and run from it, seeing only evil in the other person rather than seeing God in it. The Hebrew young men saw a fourth figure in the fire with them. Instead of whining and complaining, their faith—like that of their father Abraham—did not stagger but remained strong. Faith reveals its strength in the heat of fiery trials, not in the calm of peaceful days. As long as we have Biblical commands being read everyday—the word of God will try you, whether you are genuine in your profession and in word and in deed.

My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. 1 John 3;18 Unless we are put through such tests how could we see what we are made up of from the inside? The heart is desperately wicked and from it flows all evil. The tongue is the outlet and when fire is lit to provoke, hurt your pride, breach your territory—that’s when your true color shines. This is where you would prove your Christian identity—whether you are phony or genuine. Whether you would submit to Christ and His word or you would rebel and recede. Jesus in Gethsemane, who prayed, “Not my will, but yours be done” (Luke 22:42), are we called to drink the cup of marital struggle, trusting it shapes us for eternity? This question may unsettle you, but it’s one we must face: Is divorce, except for justifiable reasons, considered rejecting God’s will?

Note:

Divorce is generally considered justified only in cases of adultery, abuse, or other situations that endanger a person’s life, as these violate the genuine and godly principles of marriage. Such acts constitute a breach of the sacred marriage covenant and may therefore justify divorce. In these circumstances, where the covenant has been broken, one is no longer bound by it and is consequently free from the marriage bond. Other than these justifiable cases, trials will come in every relationship—the storms will rise, and the winds will blow. But if your heart is built on the Rock—the Word of God—that house will stand firm despite being battered. Yet hearts that are not aligned with God’s Word will struggle and may fall under the onslaught. This is the cup handed to us all to drink—the daily trials of life. Will you accept it and say, “Lord, Your will be done”? This is my share of the cup of gall that I must drink, but this gall is offered for my purification—to examine myself so that we may cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God (2 Corinthians 7:1), rather than mere suffering. It works for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory (2 Corinthians 4:17).

That we no longer live the rest of our time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God (1 Peter 4:1-2); that we may be glorified together (Romans 8:17); and that we might partake of His nature and His holiness (Hebrews 12:5-11). “Shouldn’t we be following the footsteps of our Master? He who says he abides in Him ought also to walk just as He walked.” — 1 John 2:6

The Cup of Sanctification: A Biblical Lens

In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus faced a cup no human soul could bear—the wrath of God poured out for humanity’s sin. He pleaded, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me” (Luke 22:42), yet surrendered, drinking it fully to fulfill God’s redemptive plan. This act of submission wasn’t just for salvation; it modeled how we, too, must face the cups God offers us. Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.

To lay down our lives means putting agape love into action—the selfless, sacrificial love described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7:”Charity (love) suffers long and is kind; it does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” Laying down our lives is living out this love daily—choosing patience, kindness, humility, and endurance, even when it costs us.

Marriage, as God’s foundational institution for society (Genesis 2:24), is one such cup. It’s a covenant, not a contract, designed to reflect Christ’s unbreakable love for His church (Ephesians 5:25). Yet, within this sacred union, trials are inevitable. The Apostle Paul warned, “Those who marry will have trouble in the flesh” (1 Corinthians 7:28). These troubles—misunderstandings, pride, or unmet expectations—are not accidents but divine tools for sanctification, refining us to be more like Christ. God uses trials as a bit and bridle to gently tame and guide our spirit.

Consider this: If Jesus had refused His cup, where would we be? His submission transformed the world. Likewise, when we reject the trials of marriage, are we not rejecting the very process God uses to mold us? The idea that a “perfect partner” exists ignores the reality of Eden’s fall—every soul bears the stain of sin. To walk away from marriage’s challenges, seeking an easier path, may be to say, “My will, not yours, Lord.” This is a sobering thought, one that demands we reexamine our choices.

The Lie of the Perfect Partner

Our culture glorifies the myth of the perfect partner, promising fulfillment if we just find “the one.” Dating apps, romantic comedies, and self-help books fuel this fantasy, suggesting that love should be effortless and that divorce is a liberation from a bad match. But scripture tells a different story. No one is immune to sin’s corruption; no marriage escapes the friction of two fallen souls becoming one. The pursuit of perfection is not just absurd—it’s idolatry, placing our desires above God’s design. When we divorce to escape hardship, we often trade one set of struggles for another, missing the sanctifying work God intended.

One might find a neutral partner with whom life seems peaceful—but at what cost? In doing so, you may be stepping out of the very process God is using to refine you. Would you trade eternal life with God for temporary relief? Don’t you know that without holiness, no one shall see the Lord? (Hebrews 12:14)

Divorce is not a neutral choice. It’s a pest, as some have called it, tearing at the fabric of families, communities, and God’s plan for society. It leaves children wounded, finances shattered, and hearts scarred. Yet society calls this freedom. Scripture, however, calls us to perseverance. Philippians 2:5 urges, “Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus,” who endured suffering for a greater purpose. What if the pain of your marriage is not a sign to flee but a call to surrender, to let God work through your submission?

Empathy for the Broken

Let’s pause to acknowledge the elephant in the room: not every marriage is salvageable. Abuse, abandonment, or unrepentant infidelity can shatter a covenant beyond repair. God hates injustice (Psalm 11:5), and His compassion extends to those trapped in toxic unions. Even God put Israel away and gave her a certificate of divorce because of her unfaithfulness—didn’t He?

“And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce…” (Jeremiah 3:8, KJV) For some, separation is a painful necessity, and grace abounds for those who walk that path. But for many, divorce is not about survival—it’s about comfort, pride, or the refusal to endure. This article speaks to those moments when we’re tempted to walk away not because of danger but because the cup feels too bitter. Are we willing to trust God’s refining fire, or do we demand our own way?

The Mind of Christ in Marriage

Jesus’ example in Gethsemane is our blueprint. He didn’t want the cup—His human nature recoiled—but He drank it, trusting the Father’s will. Marriage, too, is a crucible where our pride and self are butchered, as you so vividly put it. It’s where we learn to love sacrificially, to forgive relentlessly, to submit humbly. Every argument, every tear, every moment of feeling unloved is a chance to say, “Not my will, but yours.” This is the mind of Christ, the path to sanctification. To reject this cup is to miss the eternal weight of glory being worked in us (2 Corinthians 4:17).

Preaching this is easier than living it. Who wants their ego crushed in the confines of a struggling marriage? Who wants to forgive when it hurts, to stay when it’s hard? Isn’t it hypocrisy to call Jesus Christ “Lord” while refusing to obey His commands? “Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I say?” Jesus asked (Luke 6:46). The courage to stay, to work through the pain, to seek reconciliation, is not weakness—it’s worship. It’s declaring, “God, I trust your plan over my feelings.”

A Call to Drink the Cup

What cup are you refusing in your marriage? Is it the cup of patience with a spouse who grates your nerves? The cup of forgiveness for a wound that still stings? The cup of humility when pride screams for control? These are not easy to drink, but they are holy. They shape you, your spouse, and your family into vessels of God’s glory. Divorce may promise relief, but it often trades one pain for another, leaving behind the sanctifying work God intended.

This is not a call to stay in danger but a challenge to see marriage as God does—a sacred union where trials are not the enemy but the forge. Seek help—counseling, prayer, community—but don’t walk away from God’s refining fire. The cup is bitter, but it’s also redemptive. It’s where you become more like Christ, where your family becomes a testimony of grace.

This sinful disposition we all carry, combined with diverse cultural backgrounds, differing doctrinal mindsets, and—above all—the physical and mental differences between male and female, who are opposites by design, create constant pressure within a relationship. These differences often act as opposing forces, like internal repellents that strain the mind and heart.

If we think another person will somehow “work better,” it may simply be like jumping from the fire into the frying pan. The decision, however, is yours. Paul said it is better for one to remain as they are—that is, unmarried or celibate—but people are different, and each must choose what they believe they need in life.

If you cannot contain yourself, then it is better to marry than to burn with passion (1 Corinthians 7:9). But if you can remain single, it may spare you from drinking deeply of the dregs of family strife.

But men, know this: it is a faithful saying—it is not good for a man to be alone (Genesis 2:18). While Paul spoke of the value of celibacy, from the beginning, God saw the need for companionship. The call is individual, but the truth remains: isolation is not without its own burden.

Conclusion: The Eternal Stakes

Marriage is not just a human institution; it’s God’s foundation for society, a reflection of His covenant with us. To reject its trials is to risk rejecting His will, trading eternal purpose for temporary ease. As you sit in the pews, singing “Lord, I love you,” ask yourself: Are you willing to drink the cup He’s offered? The pain is real, but so is the promise—those who endure with the mind of Christ will see God’s glory shine through their brokenness. Let’s stop chasing the myth of the perfect partner and start embracing the perfect will of God. What cup will you choose to drink today?

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Laying DOWN Your LIFE: The COSTLY Race of Radical DISCIPLESHIP

Introduction: The Betrayal That Echoes

Judas Iscariot stood at the crossroads of eternity, thirty pieces of silver jingling in his pocket. He’d seen the dead rise, the blind see, the storms hush at a word. Yet, there he was, trading the Son of God for a handful of coins—chump change for a carpenter’s wage. What pulls a man from glory to ruin? The same lure that tugs at us all: the world’s siren song, promising life but delivering death.

In 1 John 3:16, we’re handed a staggering call: “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we OUGHT to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.” This isn’t a sentimental platitude—it’s a battle cry, a blueprint for a race that costs everything. Laying down your life isn’t a one-and-done moment; it’s a deliberate, costly, Spirit-fueled journey every believer must run, rejecting the world’s glitter for God’s eternal gold. Let’s dig into the Greek roots, trace the warnings and exhortations across Scripture, and uncover what it means to count the cost when the world’s vying for our souls.

The Foundation—What Does “Laying Down” Mean?

Picture Jesus, arms stretched on the cross, breathing His last for a world that spat in His face. That’s the heartbeat of 1 John 3:16. The Greek phrase “tithēmi tēn psychēn”—literally “to place down the life”—carries weight. “Tithēmi” isn’t a casual toss; it’s a purposeful setting aside, like a soldier laying down his shield to take a bullet for a friend.

“Psychē” is more than breath—it’s the soul, the core of who you are. Jesus didn’t just die; He surrendered His very being, a voluntary act of “agapē” love that rewrote humanity’s story.

Then comes the kicker: “we ought to” (opheilō). It’s not a suggestion—it’s a moral debt, a binding call to mirror that sacrifice. But for whom? “Brothers and sisters”—the family of faith, those we’re knit to in Christ. This isn’t abstract heroism; it’s gritty, relational love.

Contrast this with John 12:25: “Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” Same “psychē”, different angle. “Hates” (miseō) doesn’t mean self-loathing—it’s a deliberate rejection, valuing worldly life less than God’s forever. It’s a paradox: cling to your “psychē” here, and it slips through your fingers; let it go, and you grasp eternity. John 12:25 sets the mindset; 1 John 3:16 gives it feet.

Then, 1 John 2:15: “Do not love the world or anything in it.” The “kosmos” isn’t trees and stars—it’s the system of pride, greed, and self that wars against God. Loving it (agapaō) chokes out love for the Father, leaving no room for sacrifice. Together, these verses frame laying down as both attitude (hating worldly life) and action (giving it up for others). It’s Christ’s cross in us—devaluing the temporary to live the eternal.

The World’s Seduction—Spiritual Adultery

James 4:4 doesn’t mince words: “You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God?” The Greek “moichalides”—adulteresses—stings like a slap. It’s Old Testament raw: Israel chasing idols, painted as a faithless bride (Hosea 2:2-5). James says loving the “kosmos” is the same—cheating on God with a rival that hates Him. It’s coalescing with the spirit of this world. “Friendship” (philia) isn’t a handshake; it’s a heart’s allegiance, cozying up to the world’s values. The stakes? Pick the world, and you’re God’s enemy. No middle ground—no gray!

Look at Demas (2 Timothy 4:10): “He loved this present world and deserted me,” Paul writes, voice heavy with loss. “Agapēsas”—that deep love—aimed at “ton nyn aiōna”, the current age, a “kosmos” cousin—for the now, not the chains Paul wore. He ran from the fire to Thessalonica’s ease. The world whispered comfort. Christ calls surrender.. Demas tasted ministry’s fire with Paul, yet bolted for Thessalonica’s bustle—safety, maybe coin, over chains. He didn’t lay down his life; he clutched it, leaving Paul to face Rome’s axe alone. The world seduced, and he ran.

This is the flip side of 1 John 3:16. The world whispers preservation—comfort, status, me-first—while Christ calls us to surrender. James and Demas scream the warning: cozy up to the “kosmos”, and you’re unfaithful to the call.

The High Stakes—Falling After Tasting Glory

Judas Iscariot haunts this story. He walked with Jesus, saw Lazarus stumble out of the tomb, felt the bread multiply in his hands. Yet John 12:6 peels back the mask: “He was a thief,” pilfering the money bag. Thirty pieces of silver (Matthew 26:15) sealed it—greed over glory. 1 Timothy 6:10 nails the autopsy: “The love of money (philarguria) is a root of all kinds of evil.” Judas didn’t trip; he “wandered from the faith,” piercing himself with betrayal’s grief, rope around his neck (Matthew 27:5); which some COVETED AFTER, they have ERRED FROM THE FAITH, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows – 1 Tim 6:10.

Hebrews 6:4-6 looms larger: “It is IMPOSSIBLE (adynaton) for those who have been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit… and then have fallen away (parapiptō), to be brought back to repentance.” Some suggest this is a hypothetical caution, a mere nudge to the wavering. But the text bites harder: they “crucify once again the Son of God” and “hold Him up to contempt”—an act so final that “there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins” (Hebrews 10:26). This isn’t backsliding confronted with grace; it’s apostasy, a willful rejection of the Holy One and Just (Acts 3:14). Judas tasted glory, shrank back to destruction (“apōleian”, Hebrews 10:39), and fell—his last state worse than the first (Matthew 12:45). Others followed: John 6:66’s disciples, awed by Jesus’ power, ditched Him when the cost hit home. Demas, too—worldly love over gospel grit.

The stakes are eternal. John 12:25’s warning rings: love your life here, lose it forever. Laying down isn’t optional—drift to mammon, and you risk a fall from which there’s no climbing back.

The Heart’s Allegiance—God or Mammon

Jesus cuts to the core in Matthew 6:24: “You cannot serve both God and mammon.” “Mamōnas” isn’t pocket change—it’s wealth as a god, demanding worship. “Hate” (miseō) one, “love” (agapaō) the other—your heart’s a single throne. Split it, and you’re serving nobody. Paul doubles down in 1 Timothy 6:11-12: “Flee (pheugō) these things”—money’s snare—“pursue (diōkō) righteousness, godliness, faith.” It’s a sprint away from mammon, a chase after God’s heart.

Here’s the kicker: your body’s a temple (1 Corinthians 6:19). Not a shack—a holy space for the Spirit. Serve mammon, and you’ve got an idol on the altar, defiling what’s God’s. Picture a modern Judas—an influencer trading faith for clicks, peddling a gospel of self while the “kosmos” cheers. Like Judas with his silver, like Demas bolting for Thessalonica’s ease, they serve the wrong master. He expects a heart clean, reserved, where His Spirit sways unchallenged. Laying down your life starts here: hating mammon’s pull, loving God’s reign, freeing your “psychē” from the world’s grip to give it for others. Judas and Demas didn’t—they shrank back, and it cost them. And the Lord would tell them, “I never knew thee; depart from me, ye workers of iniquity.” God demands a clean heart, Spirit swaying free. Hate mammon’s pull, love His reign—free your *psychē* to give it away.

The Race—Counting the Cost

Luke 14:28-31 paints it plain: “Who builds a tower without counting the cost? Who wages war without sizing the odds?” Jesus isn’t selling a feel-good faith. Discipleship’s a calculated leap—your life, will, dreams. Concurrent on the line. Hebrews 12:1-2 calls it a race: “Throw off everything that hinders… run with perseverance, fixing our eyes on Jesus.” Weights like mammon, sin like self—shed them, or you’re tripped up.

Ephesians 6:12 ups the ante: “We wrestle (palē) not against flesh and blood, but against… spiritual forces of evil.” This isn’t a jog—it’s war, Spirit-powered, against a “kosmos” clawing us back. 2 Timothy 4:7 ties it tight: “I’ve fought the good fight, finished the race.” Laying down your life is deliberate—counting every step, battling every foe, eyes locked on the prize. Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. No man that war entangles himself with the affairs of this life, that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier—2 Tim 2:3,4. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world—1 John 2:16.

The Layers of Laying Down

It’s not one act—it’s a life, a race with layers stacking like armor for the fight:

  • Daily Devotion: Flee mammon, chase God (1 Timothy 6:11)—every choice a step. It’s the heartbeat of the race, rejecting “kosmos” comforts to grip the Spirit’s fire. Each morning’s surrender fuels the next layer, a deliberate “tithēmi” of the “psychē”.
  • Spiritual Battle: Armor on (Ephesians 6:13), Spirit strong, wrestling (palē) the world’s pull (Ephesians 6:12). Devotion sharpens the sword—without it, you’re prey to the roaring lion (1 Peter 5:8). This is war, not a walk, against forces clawing your soul back to perdition.
  • Sanctification: “Work out your salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12), shedding depravity for holiness—“without which no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14). Battle forges this purity; it’s the Spirit’s chisel, carving Christ’s image from a heart once wed to sin.
  • Others-Centered: Lay down for brothers (1 John 3:16), love in action. Sanctification turns the soul outward—your “psychē” isn’t yours to hoard but to give, mirroring the cross. It’s gritty, costly, binding you to the family of faith.
  • Eternal Focus: Hate this life, keep eternity (John 12:25). This crowns the layers—every step, every blow, every gift to another fixes your eyes on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2), beyond the “kosmos’” glitter to God’s gold.

These aren’t silos—they bleed into each other. Daily devotion stokes the battle; battle drives sanctification; sanctification frees you for others; all point to eternity. Drift—money, worry, self—and you’re in “territorial waters,” enemy turf, shrinking back to destruction (Hebrews 10:39). Stay fixed on Jesus, Spirit-fueled, and it’s a race won, a life laid down.

Conclusion: The Call to Run

From Judas’ silver to Paul’s chains, laying down your life is the believer’s path—costly, fought, holy. Christ laid His down to show us love; we lay ours down to show Him ours. Count the cost. Are you drifting, or running? The race is set—run it.

FAITH Is NOT Belief—Are You Living the Real Thing?

“Faith is not belief, is it?” The question stings more than most can handle. You hear it everywhere—celebrities flaunting “faith” on talk shows while their lives mirror the world’s playbook, neighbors nodding to Jesus but never budging from their comfort, churchgoers claiming Christ like it’s a sticker they slap on and call it done. They think mere belief in the Son of Man makes them devotees. But scripture shuts that down hard. James 2:19 hits like a freight train: “You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.” If devils can believe and tremble, what’s your belief worth without a changed heart? Without obedience? It’s a truth that should shatter the shallow Christianity flooding our world.

Look around. Sound teaching’s rare. The word’s undefended. Watered-down sermons slide by, soothing but never slicing. It’s a trend—maybe a sly move by evil forces slipping into Christendom to mock and devalue what faith really means. True faith isn’t a head-nod you fake to feel safe. It’s not man-made, not a DIY project. Christ is “the author and finisher of our faith” (Hebrews 12:2). Before faith came, we were locked out of grace (Galatians 3:23). Then it arrived—a “precious faith” (2 Peter 1:1), God-given, ignited by the Spirit’s regeneration. Anything less is a masquerade, gnawing at the church from within.

Take Abraham. He didn’t stagger at God’s promise (Romans 4:20). That imputed faith—dropped into him when he was a heathen—called him out of Ur to walk with God. It held him through trials, tests, and impossibilities. His obedience, the fruit of that faith, was “counted to him for righteousness” (Romans 4:22)—faith made perfect. We’re his kids, aren’t we? “We ought to walk in the steps of the faith of our father Abraham” (Romans 4:12). Like Abraham, we’re called from our own Ur—our own cozy idols—into a faith that moves, not sits. Faith and obedience aren’t solo acts—they’re a team. James nails it: “Faith without works is dead” (James 2:17). It’s a “work of faith with power” (1 Thessalonians 1:11), bringing “fruits worthy of repentance” (Luke 3:8).

But here’s the meat: true faith has legs. It moves. It obeys. Romans 6:16 lays out the stakes: “Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?” Christ’s imputed righteousness gets you in the door—justified by His blood. That’s the start. But the climb to holiness, the daily sanctification that appropriates God’s own nature? That’s obedience to “the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:2), breaking the chains of sin and death. It’s choosing prayer over scrolling, serving the broken over chasing status, standing firm when the world tempts you to bend. Only faith—the real kind, God-given—keeps you steady when the comfort zone fades and following Jesus gets costly.

Mere belief doesn’t cut it. It’s a flimsy illusion, a pat on the back saying you’re hell-proof while you cling to this world. Jesus flips that: “The one who loves their life will lose it, while the one who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life” (John 12:25). Those coasting on belief to save their cozy life here? They’re defying Christ’s call. True faith—God’s faith—is the line showing you’ve hit *“Mount Zion, the city of the living God” (Hebrews 12:22), regenerated by the Spirit, walking in “newness of life” (Romans 6:4)—not finished, but chasing.

The church is splitting. Masquerades slink in—Jude 1:4 warned of those who “pervert the grace of God into a license for immorality.” Think prosperity preachers peddling wealth as faith’s reward, or leaders winking at sin to fill seats. They’re eroding the core, but they can’t crack it. The husk of Christendom might fray, but the meat—the true body—is guarded by the Lord who “knows His own” (John 10:28-29). So where are you? Coasting on belief, chasing this world’s glitter? Or burning with faith that obeys, costs, and pulls you to eternity? Faith isn’t belief—it’s fire from Christ, fueled by the Spirit, proven in the fight. Paul knew it: “I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:14). It’s the flame that burns through the fog of this world. Chase the real thing.

KNOWING GOD Fully: The Divine Purpose Behind Human Longing for Knowledge

As human beings, we are born with an insatiable desire to understand the world around us. This inherent hunger for knowledge often feels infinite, an endless pursuit of truth, wisdom, and understanding. But what does this longing for knowledge mean in the context of our faith, and how does it relate to God’s design for us as His image-bearers? Can the deep desire to know reflect a divine call, leading us towards our future inheritance in Christ? In this exploration, we will examine the spiritual dimensions of human curiosity and how the Bible speaks to our deepest longing for ultimate understanding.

From the moment we are born, we begin a lifelong journey of learning. Humans are curious by nature, constantly seeking to understand and make sense of the world. In fact, this pursuit of knowledge is deeply rooted in God’s design for humanity. The Bible tells us that we were created in God’s image (Genesis 1:26-27). This doesn’t mean we are identical to God, but rather that we reflect key aspects of His nature—reason, morality, creativity, and relationality.

Even though humanity’s capacity to know was marred by sin, the desire for knowledge remains. In fact, in our redemption through Christ, this desire is not only restored but also given a deeper spiritual purpose. The Bible speaks of the believer being created “after God, in righteousness and true holiness” (Ephesians 4:24). This points to a divine calling—the capacity to reflect God’s nature, which includes the pursuit of knowledge and wisdom that aligns with His will.

For those who follow Christ, the ultimate fulfilment of this longing for knowledge lies in the future. The apostle Paul writes, “Now we see through a glass, darkly, but then face to face: now I know in part, but then shall I know even as also I am known” (1 Corinthians 13:12). This verse beautifully captures the tension we experience now—our knowledge is partial, fragmented, and limited. Yet, there is a day coming when we will be transformed, when we will see God as He is, and, in that moment, we will know fully.

When we are resurrected in Christ, our bodies and minds will be glorified, no longer constrained by the limitations of the earthly body (Philippians 3:21). We will be perfectly conformed to the image of Christ, fully reflecting the knowledge and holiness of God. In that state, our insatiable hunger for truth will be fulfilled, as we will possess the fullness of understanding in perfect communion with God.

As we wait for this future perfection, the journey of knowledge is part of our sanctification. Jesus commands us to “be ye perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect” (Matthew 5:48), a calling that at first glance might seem unattainable. But the word for “perfect” in the Greek, ‘teleios,’ doesn’t imply flawlessness but maturity and completeness. It’s a call to grow into the fullness of Christ’s likeness, reflecting His character more fully over time.

The process of becoming holy and perfect is not about reaching a final destination in this life but participating in the transformative work of the Holy Ghost. As we are conformed to the image of Christ (Romans 8:29), our capacity to understand, to reflect God’s character, and to align ourselves with His will expands. This includes growing in our knowledge—not just of facts, but of the truth of God and His Word, which leads to a life of righteousness and holiness.

In this journey of spiritual and intellectual growth, the Holy Ghost plays a vital role, being one of the greatest blessings endowed upon mankind and fulfilling the promise of God. It’s difficult to imagine a world without the Holy Ghost—the “river of life” that nourishes, guides, and sustains us in ways that are deeply transformative. Jesus promised that the Spirit would guide us into all truth (John 16:13). The Spirit illuminates our understanding, helping us to grasp the deeper truths of God’s Word and the mysteries of the universe. The Spirit also stirs within us a desire for holiness, for knowledge that is aligned with God’s will, and for a life that reflects His nature. Remember that “knowledge” is essential for the renewal of our new self, as stated in Colossians 3:10. It’s not the knowledge that the world offers, but the knowledge of God’s Word that truly matters.

Here, the “knowledge” that Paul speaks of is not mere intellectual knowledge (gnosis) but a relational, spiritual, and transformative knowledge (epígnosis) that comes from an intimate understanding of God’s truth, His Word, and His will. This knowledge is the means by which the believer is renewed and conformed to the image of Christ—the “new self.” It’s the kind of knowledge that leads to spiritual growth, holiness, and a deeper relationship with God.

So, in this context, epígnosis refers to the knowledge of God’s will, His ways, and His truth, which renews and transforms believers into the likeness of Christ. This contrasts with superficial or worldly knowledge, known as gnosis (γνῶσις), in which the Gnostics took pride, ultimately falling into serious theological errors.

The Bible does address the danger of knowledge that leads to pride. In 1 Corinthians 8:1, Paul writes:

“Now concerning things offered to idols: We know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies.” (1 Corinthians 8:1, NKJV)

This verse highlights the idea that knowledge, when divorced from humility and love, can lead to pride and arrogance rather than spiritual growth. It’s a caution against intellectual pride that makes one feel superior, especially when it’s disconnected from the love and wisdom that should guide our actions and relationships.

In contrast to the kind of gnosis that puffs up with pride, epígnosis (the deeper, fuller knowledge of God) is what Christians are encouraged to seek. While gnosis can lead to spiritual elitism and division, epígnosis is a knowledge that brings humility, transformation, and greater intimacy with God. It’s not just intellectual knowledge but relational and experiential knowledge—knowing God’s will, His ways, and His truth in a way that changes the heart and mind, leading to spiritual growth and maturity.

In fact, Paul often contrasts superficial knowledge (gnosis) with the more profound, transformative knowledge of God (epígnosis), which is a hallmark of Christian discipleship. In Colossians 1:9-10, for example, Paul prays for believers to be filled with the epígnosis of God’s will:

“For this reason we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge (epígnosis) of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge (epígnosis) of God.” (Colossians 1:9-10, NKJV)

Epígnosis is the kind of knowledge that leads to living a life that reflects God’s character, bringing honour to Him through our actions and decisions. It is a knowledge that transforms, humbles, and empowers, unlike the prideful, divisive knowledge that the Gnostics sought.

In a way, Paul is telling us that the epígnosis of God—this deeper, Christ-centred knowledge—is what we should seek, as it leads to spiritual maturity, love, and unity in Christ.

The journey from gnosis to epígnosis is a progressive transformation, requiring not only the pursuit of knowledge but also the cultivation of patience—a virtue forged through the trials and tribulations that we endure in Christ – Romans 5:3. These experiences refine our faith, deepen our understanding, and lead us closer to the fullness of divine truth.

Let’s break it down to better understand it, as this is vital to prevent people from wasting precious time and energy investing their time in using gnosis instead of epígnosis, which is often seen in circles of Christians today. “Epígnosis” refers to a deeper, more precise, and experiential knowledge, often used in the New Testament to describe the knowledge of God, His will, and His truth—something that goes beyond mere intellectual understanding. To possess such knowledge, you must walk the walk of faith in total submission and obedience. True Christianity cannot be inherited by merely reading books or earning a PhD. It is a call to be transformed from within, to possess the mind of Christ, and to partake in His divine nature and holiness. Christianity is meant to be transformational—it is a journey of growing into the full stature of Jesus Christ. If you thought otherwise, it’s time to renew your mind. One must walk and live in the Spirit, being supplanted by the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus, which is to get the spirit of the mind renewed. And be renewed in the spirit of your mind” (Ephesians 4:23). When it speaks of the spirit of the mind, it points to a deeper dimension—not just the surface-level thoughts, but the core of the mind, its inner realm. Thus, gnosis alone cannot suffice; it is epignosis that truly fulfils the transformative call.

In John 17:3, Jesus said, And this is life eternal, that they might know thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent. It implies a relational, intimate understanding that leads to transformation, particularly in the context of spiritual renewal. It is an experiential knowledge that comes from following Christ through His Word. We all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord—2 Corinthians 3:18. As we look into the mirror of God’s Word, we are transformed—not merely hearers, but doers of the Word. Being sanctified and cleansed with the washing of water by the word—Ephesians 5:26. Epígnosis (ἐπίγνωσις) is indeed therefore different from gnosis (γνῶσις). While gnosis refers to general knowledge or understanding, it can also have a more neutral or even secular connotation, often indicating intellectual or theoretical knowledge. In many contexts, gnosis simply refers to knowing something, whether it’s knowledge of facts or concepts.

On the other hand, epígnosis (from the prefix epi- meaning “upon” or “full” and gnosis meaning “knowledge”) signifies a deeper, fuller, and more intimate understanding—particularly in a spiritual or relational sense. It’s a knowledge that is more than just factual; it involves a profound personal experience or insight, especially about God and His will. In the New Testament, epígnosis often refers to the knowledge that leads to spiritual growth, transformation, and renewal, as seen in passages like Colossians 3:10, where it’s tied to the renewal of the new self in Christ.

Proverbs 9:10 says: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” (Proverbs 9:10, NKJV)

The Hebrew word “daat” (דַּעַת), which generally means “knowledge,” “understanding,” or “awareness.” It’s often used to refer to a deep, intimate knowledge, particularly in relation to God. While epígnosis is a Greek term used in the New Testament to convey a fuller, more complete knowledge of God and His ways, the Hebrew concept of “daat” in Proverbs 9:10 also points to this deeper, relational understanding that leads to wisdom and spiritual growth.

Now, when we connect this with Proverbs 9:10 (“The knowledge of the Holy is understanding”), we see a profound link: true understanding comes from knowing God. Not just knowing about God, but knowing Him intimately and relationally. The knowledge of the Holy One—His will, His ways, and His nature—forms the foundation of all spiritual understanding. The application of God’s Word is what brings this understanding to life and produces results. Moreover, this is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, a continual work of the Holy Spirit in our hearts and minds, shaping us more into the likeness of Christ. It opens our spiritual eyes to see things clearly and to live in a way that aligns with God’s truth.

This deep, experiential knowledge (epignosis or daat) can only be attained through being born of God, as Jesus stated, “Unless you are born of the Spirit, you cannot enter the kingdom of God.” The kingdom of God is essentially the INHERITANCE of that spiritual kingdom (Matthew 25:34; 1 Corinthians 6:9, 10), and its virtues—righteousness, peace, and joy, as described in Romans 14:17—are signs of having possessed it. You can clearly see how distinct this is from GNOSIS, which is intellectual in nature, while the other is experiential, being IMPUTED when you come to Christ. Keep in check the specific words used, as they are intentionally chosen to convey the deeper meaning that the writer is receiving from the Spirit of God.

Matthew 4:16 does speak about the coming of the light in a way that can be understood as the revelation of God through Jesus Christ. It says, ‘The people, who sat in darkness, saw great light, and to them, who sat in the region and shadow of death, light is sprung up.’ Isn’t this ‘light’ referring to the knowledge of God, which is revealed through the face of Jesus? This understanding aligns with what the apostle Paul later says in 2 Corinthians 4:6: “For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. The light that is described in both Matthew 4:16 and 2 Corinthians 4:6 can indeed be understood as epignosis—a deeper, more intimate knowledge of God. So, when the Bible speaks of God shining light into our hearts, it is not just about gaining intellectual facts; it’s about a profound revelation of God’s glory through Jesus Christ that transforms us at a deep, personal level. Thus, the “light” in these passages isn’t just about illumination in the abstract sense, but about the epignosis—an intimate, life-changing encounter with God, made possible through the face of Jesus. This revelation is what draws believers into a deeper relationship with God, not just through intellectual awareness but through the experience of His glory, love, and truth. It is through the coming of the Spirit of God upon mankind that this knowledge is imparted, both on the day of Pentecost and in every personal encounter with Christ, where the Spirit bestows the saving grace of God.

So, while epígnosis isn’t used in Proverbs 9:10 specifically (because it’s a Hebrew Old Testament passage), the idea it conveys aligns closely with what epígnosis represents in the New Testament: “daat” (דַּעַת), a knowledge that transforms, humbles, and brings understanding. This is what Ephesians 1:18 refers to as “the eyes of our understanding being enlightened.”

“The knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” In short, the “knowledge of the Holy” (whether daat in Hebrew or epígnosis in Greek) opens up your spiritual eyes, helping you see things from God’s perspective. This kind of knowledge isn’t just intellectual but transformative. It brings understanding—it helps you grasp divine truth, deepens your relationship with God, and promotes spiritual growth. This knowledge aligns your heart and mind with God’s will, leading to wisdom, maturity, and a Christlike character. It’s the kind of knowledge that not only informs but also changes you from the inside out. Though it is received once, it is a knowledge that progresses over time.

Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom, and with all thy getting get understanding.” This verse emphasises that understanding—the ability to truly comprehend, discern, and apply God’s wisdom—is foundational to a Christian life. And it is with a person that we align ourselves or become one in regeneration—Christ, who is the power of God and the wisdom of God, as 1 Corinthians 1:24 says.

Though the virtues of God are displayed for us to inherit, it is actually the second person of the Godhead, with whom we become one in the new birth, who embodies all these virtues, in whom dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily—Colossians 1:19; 2:9.

Didn’t He say, ‘I am the resurrection and the life (ζωή),’ ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life (ζωή),’ ‘I am that I am,’ ‘The wisdom and the power of God,’ the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End, and so on? He is everything that creation longs for and is deficient in.

(ζωή) Zoē refers not just to biological life (the mere existence of living beings) but more specifically to a divine, spiritual life. It denotes a life that is full, abundant, and eternal—the life that comes only from knowing God through the new birth. It is the life found in Christ, a reflection of God’s own nature, and it comes bundled with the experiential knowledge, or epignosis, that unites us with Him. He that hath the Son hath life (ζωή); and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life (ζωή),” period. (1 John 5:12)

Proverbs 2:10, which says, “When wisdom ENTERS into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul,” the word “knowledge” here is indeed “da’at” (דַּעַת) in Hebrew. In summary, when da’at ENTERS the soul, it brings a rich, life-changing understanding that impacts the whole person—mind, heart, and will—and fills the soul with peace, joy, and the ability to live according to God’s wisdom. In regeneration, God’s life enters and quickens us spiritually. However, to sustain that life, we must continually nourish the inner man, which is created after God in righteousness and true holiness. This RENEWAL is accomplished through the knowledge of God, which is nourished by the word of God—Colossians 3:10; 2 Corinthians 4:16.

In a nutshell, entering into a union with this source of life, which is Christ, is what it truly means. When you are TRANSLATED into the kingdom of Christ by the Spirit—Colossians 1:13—it represents a transformation of culture. When you come to Christ and are conformed to His death through baptism, you are declared dead to the world, to Egypt and its ruler, and to your own self. Gradually, yet steadily, you begin to allow the life of Christ to reign over you, transforming you into a new creation—Galatians 2:20. As you yield to His Spirit—Romans 6:13,16—your mind, heart, and actions are progressively aligned with His will, reflecting the fullness of His life in you. It’s a progressive journey, not a one-time event sealed by the new birth, which marks only the beginning of a lifelong relationship. Just as a child must grow, so too must we mature in our fellowship with the Father, becoming fruitful and strong, in order to inherit all that He has prepared for us.

Many are content with having been justified by faith, believing that this alone is the culmination of the Christian journey and that nothing more is required. The Apostle Paul did not consider himself to have already attained the fullness of his salvation, did he? He said, “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected, but I press on that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me.” (Philippians 3:12) In another verse, he adds, “But I keep under my body and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.” (1 Corinthians 9:27)

This demonstrates Paul’s recognition that despite his calling and efforts, the race was not yet finished. Even though he had been apprehended by Christ, he understood the need to continually strive, to live in submission, and to maintain a disciplined life so as not to be disqualified from the prize. Salvation is not a static state; it is a continuous journey that requires perseverance and faithfulness.

One might argue that this is promoting salvation by works, but isn’t it true that there should be works befitting repentance? Without such outward expressions revealing the condition of your inner self, how can you truly judge what you are made of? As Romans 7:5 says, “For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.” If this is the case, and we have been delivered from sin, as many proclaim, shouldn’t we now bring forth fruit that confirms and validates our claim?

Romans 5:18 says justification unto life is a free gift—note the word “unto,” which indicates that it is not a static state but an entry point into the life of salvation. It’s a beginning, not the final destination, setting the believer on a journey toward full transformation and eternal life in Christ.

The word “UNTO” (Greek: eis) is indeed significant because it indicates movement toward a goal or purpose. It shows that justification is not merely a state but a dynamic process leading to something—life in this case. So, when the verse speaks of justification unto life, it means that justification is the beginning or entrance into the broader experience of eternal life. It’s not a static, completed state but the starting point of a journey, which aligns with the ongoing process of salvation. In this context, “unto” emphasises that justification leads to life and sets the believer on a path toward its full realisation.

If there are tests for evaluating your competency in the natural world, there are also tests in the spiritual realm, meant to evaluate your devotion and the substance of your faith. These spiritual tests refine and strengthen your character, revealing whether your commitment to Christ is genuine and enduring. Just as in the natural world, where trials and assessments lead to growth, so in the spiritual life, God allows challenges to purify and perfect us, preparing us for His eternal purpose.

If you want to join a communist party, your adherence to its political bureau and its edicts is crucial, isn’t it? Will the party validate your entry as genuine if you do not conform to its laws? Likewise, conformity to Christ comes with its own tests and trials. The tests and trials of faith are the way to God, as the Scriptures teach. God tests all men; He tested and tried everyone who came to Him; even Christ, the Son of Man, wasn’t spared from it.

Why does the Lord test? From the beginning of time, we can see the tests and trials of the godly. Jeremiah 17:9 says, ‘The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked; who can know it? I, the LORD, search the heart; I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways and according to the fruit of his doings.’ (Jeremiah 17:9-10)

Now, why would someone believe that being justified is the culmination of the work of salvation? Being saved or justified by faith is not the end—it is only the entry point into a journey with the Spirit of God. Justification is the beginning of a lifelong process, where the believer is progressively conformed to the image of Christ, continually transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit. The fullness of salvation includes sanctification and glorification, not just the initial act of being justified.

This journey of growth involves a continual deepening of our relationship with Him through His Word, prayer, and obedience. It requires an ongoing transformation of our hearts and minds, where we become more like Christ in character and conduct. The new birth initiates this process, but it is through sanctification that we are shaped into the image of the Son, pressing forward toward the fullness of the life He offers. As we mature in this union, we discover the depths of His love, the richness of His grace, and the inheritance reserved for those who endure and grow in faith.

It takes spiritual maturity to become skilful in the word of righteousness and to partake of His holiness and the divine nature, as Hebrews 5:13-14 and 12:5-11 teach us. These verses reveal that the mature believer, one who has learnt through experience and discipline, is able to discern good from evil and partake of the divine nature. The word used there is ἐμπειρος (empires)—it is derived from the combination of ἐν (en), meaning “in,” and πειρα (peira), meaning “trial” or “experience.” Literally, it means “one who is in experience”—a person who has gained skill and proficiency through ongoing exposure to challenges and practical experiences. Many are the afflictions of the righteous—Psalm 34:19. If the Captain of our salvation had to be made perfect through sufferings, and, being made perfect, became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him (Hebrews 2:10, 11; 5:8, 9), how much more must we?

Hebrews 6:15; 11:27; and 12:2, 3, 7 all speak of enduring faith, highlighting the perseverance of those who trusted God despite trials. In Hebrews 6:15, we see Abraham’s patience and faith leading to the fulfilment of God’s promise. Hebrews 11:27 speaks of Moses enduring, as he chose the reproach of Christ over the pleasures of Egypt. Joseph: ‘Until the time that his word came, the word of the LORD tried him.’ (Psalm 105:19) Hebrews 12:2, 3, and 7 urge believers to look to Jesus as the ultimate example of endurance through suffering, encouraging us to persevere in our own trials.

On the other hand, a babe in Christ, described here as ἀπειρος (apeiros), refers to one who is spiritually immature and unskillful in the word of righteousness (yet carnal—1 Corinthians 3:1-3). This term indicates someone who has not yet matured in their faith (being weaned on the milk—1 Peter 2:2). The idea of being “weaned on milk” typically refers to a person who has only had basic, introductory exposure to spiritual things. They lack the ability to rightly apply or fully understand the “word of righteousness”—God’s truth regarding how to live righteously. They are unskilled or inept in the “word of righteousness,” meaning they lack the ability to rightly apply or understand God’s Word, particularly when it comes to living a righteous life. Essentially, they are still in the early stages of spiritual development, unable to handle the deeper aspects of the Christian walk, remaining confined to the basics of the faith, and being under the sway of the innate corruption, yielding to unrighteousness, and, as children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine—Ephesians 4:14.

The spiritually immature lack the inner strength to bear all things for righteousness’ sake. However, the spiritual person, in whom the love of God is perfected, stands firm and unshaken when trials and testing come. This person remains steadfast in the Lord, refusing to fight fleshly battles—even in the face of family conflicts—and endures with unwavering faith. By resisting the devil, they ultimately secure victory in their circumstances. Whether they succeed outwardly or not, the fruit of righteousness is cultivated within them, proving their trustworthiness before God. Such a person is a true Jew, one who is inwardly transformed.

This is the difference: Whoso keeps his word (doer of the word—James 1:22); in him verily is the love of God perfected; hereby know we that we are in him. He that saith he abides in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked—1 John 2:5, 6. This is the state of a spiritual man. He is steadfast and staggers not. Let’s examine ourselves to see whether we have grown to this point and whether we possess or have developed this love: Charity ἀγάπη (agapé) suffers long and is kind; charity envies not; charity vaunts not itself, is not puffed up, does not behave itself unseemly, seeks not her own (seeks the betterment of the other person), is not easily provoked, thinks no evil (renders not evil for evil unto any man); Rejoices not in iniquity (he is vexed and grieved by his own and the world’s sinful state) but rejoices in the truth (his heart delights in the word of God—Psalm 1:2); bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

Paul said, When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child, but when I became a man (spiritually mature), I PUT AWAY childish things. —1 Corinthians 13:11 Galatians 4:3 says: Even so we, when we were children, were in bondage under the elements of the world.”

This verse is part of Paul’s argument in the book of Galatians, where he contrasts the former life under the law (as a system of bondage) with the new life in Christ. Paul speaks about the time before believers came to the knowledge of the gospel, when they were “children” (spiritually immature), living under the dominion of “the elements of the world.” In the context of spiritual immaturity, these “elements” might refer to the basic principles of the world—law, rituals, and earthly wisdom—that keep people in bondage, unable to access the deeper spiritual truths of the gospel.

“The “bondage to the elements” represents a state of spiritual infancy—a time before the believer is freed from the elementary teachings of the world. These elements could be rules, rituals, or worldly wisdom that do not lead to spiritual freedom. A spiritually immature person, like a child, remains trapped in the basic elements of the faith and is unable to experience the freedom that comes from the fullness of Christ.

Let us LAY ASIDE every weight and the sin which doth so easily beset us—Hebrews 12:1—in the context of iniquity or even a specific, recurring sin that entangles believers, hindering their spiritual progress. The phrase “beset” is translated from the Greek word “euperistaton” (εὐπερίστατον), meaning something that is easily surrounding or entangling. It conveys the image of sin as something that easily encircles or entangles a believer, preventing them from advancing in their faith and spiritual maturity.

Besetting sin is often seen as a recurring, habitual sin—a pattern or inclination that continually trips up the believer. It might be something like pride, anger, lust, covetousness, unforgiveness, pleasure-seeking, or dishonesty—sins that seem to persistently ensnare the believer’s thoughts, actions, and attitudes, which the Bible instructs us to put off—Colossians 3:8. And these are not occasional lapses, but rather persistent struggles that hold a believer back. This is why the throne of grace is made available to OBTAIN mercy—for by mercy and truth alone iniquity gets purged—Proverbs 16:6. Remember the cliché: ye shall know the truth, and the truth will make you free—John 8:32. You can’t simply put it off just because it says so; it requires time and a reliance on God and His Spirit, along with the continual washing of the Word and the trials that work toward it. The Spirit of God, through His word, shall sit as a refiner and purify us—Malachi 3.

Sowing is a process in both the natural and spiritual realms, where the seeds we plant in our hearts and lives determine the harvest we reap. Be not deceived; God is not mocked, for whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap—Galatians 6:7. The field of the slothful, a man without understanding, is grown over with thorns, and the nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down (Proverbs 24:30,31). A slothful man refers to one who fails to take the time to care for his inner man, neglecting his spiritual growth and relationship with God, doesn’t he? The thorns and thistles represent cares, riches, and pleasures of this life bringing no fruit to perfection. Luke 8:14 The stone wall, however, could represent the protective boundaries or strength of character that are compromised when we neglect spiritual discipline. When the wall is broken down, it opens the door to vulnerability, allowing worldly distractions and spiritual decay to take root.

Matthew 13:6 – And when the sun rose—representing the trials of life—they were scorched, having no root. Because they had no root, they withered. Such shall only serve to fuel the fire of hell. Now you understand the gravity of why Paul instructed us: ‘Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

The Bible warns that “he who sows to the flesh will reap corruption”—a corruption that leads to depravity, iniquity upon iniquity, and ultimately, the sin that leads to death, spiralling from bad to worse. This decay cannot be ignored. Unless we bring our inner depravity—our spiritual rottenness—before Christ in utter remorse, it will continue to consume us. There comes a point when the weight of our corruption should distress us so deeply that it drives us to seek the Lord earnestly, inviting His Spirit to cleanse and transform us so that we may be freed from the misery of our inherent sinfulness.

If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us. 1 John 1:8-10; Romans 7:14-24.

Iniquity (Lawlessness):
The concept of besetting sin aligns with the biblical idea of iniquity—a deeply entrenched moral perversity that is not merely a one-time act of sin but a persistent condition. Iniquity speaks to lawlessness or rebellion against God, and it manifests in habits or attitudes that entangle the believer in sinful behaviour. This sin may be so deeply ingrained in the believer’s nature that it keeps them from growing spiritually, often because they have not fully submitted to Christ’s transformative work. One could trace the iniquity back to their ancestors and parents, which might seem like a cursed life. However, in reality, it is the deeply ingrained iniquity that has not been dealt with by God that is making one’s life miserable. It is only when we bring this iniquity before the Lord in prayer and through a genuine confession of the heart, recognising our own corruption, that we can experience true healing and freedom. Without this surrender, the cycle of sin and misery continues, often mistaken for a generational curse, when it is in fact the unresolved iniquity that has yet to be brought under the redemptive power of God’s grace.

It took me at least 25 years to recognise the depth of my own rottenness—the iniquity that so easily besets me. This realisation has compelled me to share the truth about our real condition. One day, during a Spirit-led fast, the Lord revealed something to me that I could hardly believe—a vice that was just one of many deeply rooted in my heart, hidden for years and controlling me in ways I never realised. He not only exposed it but, in His mercy, He also expelled it from me. I could literally feel a spirit departing from within me, a deep, hidden hatred toward God that I hadn’t even known was there.

Deep down, I longed for the righteousness of God, feeling the weight of my need for it as my utter rottenness stared me in the face every day. The sting of it sought to torment me and take me captive. I was weary of this old self, constantly trying to pull me back into its grip. I began seeking His nature and holiness, and that’s when I started to see the entanglements of iniquity deeply ingrained in me—revelations that came through the Spirit of God. Until then, I didn’t understand why I kept circling around the same point, never making progress. It was this sin, which so easily besets us, that needed to be dealt with first before any true progress in life could be made.

One must take time to sit with the Lord in prayer and fasting when the Spirit directs, allowing space to examine one’s inner life and standing in Christ in the light of the holy Scriptures. But in reality, we often find ourselves consumed with building a life for ourselves and our families—caught up in the demands of daily responsibilities, peer pressures, work, and worldly pursuits. With all these distractions, the question arises: when do we truly carve out time for the things of God, especially the state of our spiritual lives? It’s easy to overlook or postpone this vital work, but it’s precisely in these moments of stillness and reflection with the Lord that we can hear His voice and address what’s been buried within us.

As Jesus asked Simon Peter, ‘Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these?’ He is asking all of us the same question. And as He also said, ‘If anyone loves his father, mother, son, daughter, or family more than me, he is not worthy of me.’ In this context, ‘worthy of me’ means that such a person is not in a position to truly receive Jesus and His life. It’s not about personal merit, but about the devotion required to fully embrace Christ. When our love for others, even our closest family, outweighs our love for Him, we are not prepared to receive the fullness of His life and purpose. And he that taketh not his cross (the cost of discipleship, the trials in life that may arise due to following Christ and His word) and follows after me is not worthy of me—Matthew 10:37, 38. He that loves his life shall lose it (as they waste precious time neglecting their spiritual growth in Christ, prioritising the things of this present world instead), and he that hates his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal—John 12:25. Jesus said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment.

In Philippians 3:7-11, the Apostle Paul explains that to follow Christ, he considers everything he once valued—his heritage, status, and achievements—as loss for the sake of Christ. He goes further, counting all things as dung in comparison to the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus. This radical revaluation leads Paul to lose all things in order to win Christ and be found in Him, not with his own righteousness based on the law, but with the righteousness that comes through faith in Christ. Paul’s deepest desire is to know Christ intimately, experiencing the power of His resurrection, the fellowship of His sufferings, and being conformed to His death. In doing so, Paul aims to attain the resurrection of the dead, the ultimate reward of eternal life in Christ. Following Christ, therefore, requires a complete surrender of all worldly attachments, embracing a life of sacrificial devotion to Him, with the goal of being fully united with Christ in both His sufferings and His victory.

Is this what is being taught today? Isn’t it high time to examine ourselves, to see if we’ve been deceived, and return to the Lord? Apostasy is rampant, and as Jesus asked, ‘Will He find faith on the earth when He comes?’ Luke 18:8; 2 Thessalonians 2:3 This question seems clearer now more than ever. Can we honestly believe that we might not be among those who fall away? Some are content with their luxurious, retired life in a cosy cottage, believing they are ready to be received by God. But are you sure? Or will He say, “I never knew you; depart from me? Matthew 7:23 Shouldn’t we secure our destiny by being at the feet of Jesus, enquiring of the Scriptures, for in them is eternal life? John 5:39

Some become so engrossed in ministry that they place it above their own spiritual growth. In the end, I wonder what they’ve truly gained. It’s a frightening thought. A Christian’s primary focus should be to walk closely with the Lord, and ministry should naturally flow from that deep, personal relationship in wholehearted devotion to Christ.

You may attempt to please God with superficial worship, like what is often seen in many church gatherings today. But if you refuse to come to the feet of Jesus and immerse yourself in His Word to align your life with God’s ways, you may be heading down an uncertain path, one that ultimately leads to a lost position. If an aircraft deviates from its course, can it still reach its intended destination? Wouldn’t it risk running out of fuel and ultimately crashing? Likewise, we must stay on course—abiding in Christ and following sound doctrine. As 1 Timothy 4:16 says, “Take heed unto thyself and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself and them that hear thee.” Just as a plane must stay on its flight path to reach its destination, we must stay faithful to the truth in Christ to reach the goal of salvation.

Many people choose mere rituals and empty worship because it doesn’t require their full devotion or commitment to His Word. However, consider the layout of the tabernacle: those who worship with only their lips are standing in the outer courts, far from the Holy and Most Holy places. Is that where you want to remain, or do you desire to draw near to the presence of God, in full surrender to Him?

In the Old Testament tabernacle, worship occurred in three distinct areas, each with its own mode of worship, reflecting different levels of access to God’s presence and the roles of the people involved. The Outer Court, the Holy Place, and the Most Holy Place.                                                                              

The Outer Court, where the general congregation worshipped, represents superficial worship—rituals and songs that are outward and lack true devotion or alignment with God’s will. Here, the people’s feet are still in the world, engaged in external acts of worship without full separation from worldly influences. It is only when entering the Holy Place that one must go through a process of cleansing, symbolising the need to be set apart and cut off from the worldly system in order to draw closer to God in true devotion. In other words, this was where the general congregation, or the everyday worshippers, could enter. It was open to all and represented the initial step of approaching God, but it was still far from the most sacred areas. This corresponds to worship that is outward or superficial, such as offering prayers or songs that lack personal devotion or alignment with God’s will.                                                                                                                                                           

The Holy Place symbolises a deeper level of worship, where personal sacrifice, obedience, and intimacy with God are cultivated. This was the second, more sacred area, where only the priests could enter (we are called to be priests unto God—1 Peter 2:9; Revelation 1:6; 5:10). It symbolised a deeper relationship with God, involving personal sacrifice, intercession, and dedication to His service. Worship here would imply a more intimate, obedient life with true commitment to God’s Word.                       

The Most Holy Place, the innermost sanctum, represents the highest level of worship, characterised by absolute surrender and intimate communion with God (enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus—Hebrews 10:19). As one approaches the Holy of Holies, words grow fewer, for the presence of God becomes so overwhelming that it shifts from speaking to simply receiving from Him. Those who enter into this sacred place of prayer and devotion and receive from God are the ones truly equipped to go out and serve others. They alone have something of eternal value to offer. Sadly, many who remain in the outer court—caught up in ritual and external worship—have taken on the role of ministers today, but without the depth of encounter that only those who draw near to God in the holy place can truly impart.                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

Many today remain in the ‘Outer Court’ of superficial worship, attending services without true transformation. There is no sacrifice required on their part, and they stand outside, performing rituals or singing songs without being willing to separate from the world. They believe that simply going through the motions—without a change of heart or a willingness to give up worldly attachments—will be enough to please God. But true worship requires more than external actions; it demands a transformation that comes from the inside out, where one must be willing to lay down their worldly desires and draw closer to God’s will. True discipleship calls for entering into deeper intimacy with God, where worship is not just external but marked by obedience, surrender, and a heart fully aligned with His Word.

Let me be clear: I’m not against worship or spiritual songs. They are vital, and God delights in melodies from the heart and songs that uplift and edify His people. When truly heartfelt, worship can draw us closer to God. But what I’m urging is that worship doesn’t end with just the songs or the rituals. These expressions should be stepping stones that lead us deeper into God’s presence. And we must be able to discern the spirit behind a song, as many songs today are not inspired by the Spirit of God. Not all music that is called ‘worship’ reflects His truth or leads us into genuine communion with Him.

Jesus, foreseeing this generation, said, ‘Many will call me “Lord, Lord,” and worship me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me, and they do not truly love me.’ And on that day, I will say to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me.’ Despite their protests, saying, ‘Lord, we did this in your name and that in your name—we were regular churchgoers; we followed the traditions,’ He will turn them away, for their worship was mere formality, and their hearts were not truly surrendered to Him. As the Bible says, they deceived themselves, being hearers of the word only and not doers, relying on outward acts instead of living in obedience to God’s truth—James 1:22. They chose the fleeting comforts and pleasures of this world over suffering alongside God’s people. They prioritised their own worldly life over living in the Spirit. They dedicate their entire lives to a worldly system that ensures their needs are met, where their faith isn’t challenged by the daily struggle for food or providing for their family. They’ve found security in the world, but at what price?

The writer believes that work is holy, but dedicating your entire life to a company is not what the Bible teaches—that’s what I stand against. God equips each of us with gifts for labour to provide for ourselves and our families, but our work should never consume us at the expense of our faith, family, or calling. True fulfilment comes from balancing our duties with our higher purpose in God’s kingdom, not from chasing worldly success or corporate gain.

Would someone be willing to spend as much time learning God’s Word as they would invest in establishing themselves in a worldly career, which often takes 3 to 10 years? While work and career are important, the Bible teaches that spiritual growth and knowledge of God should take precedence. Just as individuals dedicate years to mastering a profession, they should also invest time in seeking God’s kingdom and growing in His Word, which has eternal value. Spiritual maturity shapes our eternal destiny, and the time we spend developing a relationship with God is the most significant investment we can make. The rewards of knowing Christ far exceed any earthly achievement.

There is the perfect will of God, and then there’s His permissive will. Yet, many people often choose the permissive will instead of seeking God’s perfect plan. I wonder why that is. Perhaps it’s because God’s perfect will often requires sacrifice, surrender, and trust in His timing, while the permissive will can feel easier, more comfortable, and aligned with our own desires. But just because God permits something doesn’t mean it’s the best for us. The perfect will of God leads to true fulfilment and eternal purpose, while the permissive will might offer temporary satisfaction but ultimately falls short of His best for our lives.

So ask yourself: Where are you in your worship journey? Are you standing in the outer court, caught up in ritual and melody without depth? Or are you pressing deeper into God’s presence, moving beyond outward expressions to true communion with Him? Worship is vital, but it is meant to draw us near—not a place to remain. The invitation is there, but only you can choose to enter into the Holy Place.

When you compare these areas to the way people worship today, you could say that many are still in the “outer court” of worship—performing external rituals, singing songs, or attending services—but not truly coming to the feet of Jesus to be transformed or to align themselves fully with His Word. The “Holy Place” would then represent those who have a deeper relationship with God, following His Word more earnestly, being tried and tested. The “Most Holy Place” symbolises a life lived in absolute surrender, where the worshipper is fully immersed in God’s presence and obedient to His will, having become one with Christ.

It serves as a powerful reminder that true worship is not just external or ritualistic—it requires an inner transformation, a heart surrendered fully to God’s ways. This goes beyond intellectual knowledge (gnosis) to a deeper, personal understanding (epignosis) that results in true devotion and alignment with God’s will.

Many people assume there’s a quick path to wholeness, but that’s not how it works. God is close to those who are broken and humble in spirit. Before He can fill you, He must first break you. The question is, how many of us are truly willing to go through that refining process? Many would sing ‘Break me, mold me,’ but few are willing to take the necessary steps in the process. It’s easy to sing those words, but true transformation requires surrender and going through the refining fire that often isn’t comfortable or immediate.

People are being deceived into believing that the careers they choose to establish themselves in according to the world are from God. However, the Bible says the opposite—‘the pride of life is not from the Father, but from the world’ (1 John 2:16). In fact, those who love the world are called ‘adulterers and adulteresses’ in James 4:4-5: ‘Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.’ The Scripture warns that the spirit that dwells in us lusts to envy, pointing to the deep spiritual conflict of aligning ourselves with the world. To do so is spiritual fornication or whoredom, as it betrays our true allegiance to God.

When you are well-founded according to the world’s standards—whether through career success, wealth, or status—you gain the approval and honour of the world. The world loves its own, and those who align with its values are often given the best positions, respect, and privileges. You’re more likely to be picked above others for marriage, given a prominent seat, or even offered a good dowry in some cultures, because the world rewards success and conformity to its system.

Sadly, even within the church, many have lost their vision and now honour those who are well-founded in the ways of the world—those with wealth, status, or influence—over those who are godly at heart. The ones who may not be as financially established but who walk in humility, love, and reverence for God are often overlooked. The church, instead of honouring the heart that seeks God above all, can sometimes elevate the external success and worldly achievement that the world values.

Out of deep remorse and sorrow, I must admit that one of the most corrupt individuals I have encountered was within the Christian world—those who profess to know God but live as though they were heathens, with no fear of God or reverence for His Word, having no remorse whatsoever. It grieves me to see individuals who claim Christ with their lips but deny Him through their actions, living in stark contrast to the holiness and obedience that the faith calls for. Their lives often reflect a disconnection from the truth of the gospel, and it is a heartbreaking reminder of how easily one can be deceived into thinking that outward profession is enough while inward transformation is neglected.

But beyond the big issues, what truly takes me aback is the glaring absence of the love of God in their hearts—an absence of the very virtue that should characterise those who have been born again. The love of God is meant to be the foundation of our new life in Christ, yet it is often absent in those who claim to know Him. This is our calling as followers of God, as beloved children: to walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us—an offering and a sacrifice to God, a fragrant aroma. (Ephesians 5:1) This lack of love for God and others leaves me deeply troubled and even leads me to doubt the authenticity of their rebirth. The Bible tells us that the love of God is poured out in our hearts through the Holy Ghost (Romans 5:5), and it is this love that should radically transform our lives. When this love is missing, it raises serious questions about whether the new birth has truly occurred and whether the faith they profess is genuine.

As followers of God, beloved children, our mandate is clear: “And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling savour” (Ephesians 5:1). This love is not just an abstract concept but a practical reality that must shape our interactions. We cannot try, pretend, or assume to love God without loving the person whom we can see. Jesus made it clear that if we claim to love God but fail to love others, we are deceiving ourselves (1 John 4:20). Love for God is demonstrated in how we love those around us, especially those who are close to us. Love for God is always reflected in love for people—our brothers and sisters in Christ, and even those outside the household of faith.

Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour, and evil speaking be PUT AWAY from you, with all malice (Ephesians 4:31). Instead, we are called to be KIND to one another, TENDERHEARTED, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32). When we walk in these virtues, we reflect Christ’s love. However, when we harbour malice, anger, or unforgiveness, we grieve the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30), hindering His work in our lives. It is clear that our love for others should be as selfless and sacrificial as Christ’s love for us, for it is “Christ who gave Himself up for us” as the ultimate offering to God, a model of love that demands a response from us in how we treat others.

Therefore, to honour God’s love for us, we must lay aside all forms of negativity and extend the same grace and mercy that He has shown to us. As the elect of God, holy and beloved, we are called to PUT ON bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, and longsuffering; forbearing one another and forgiving one another (Colossians 3:12-13). If any man has a quarrel against another, even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye (Colossians 3:13). And above all, put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness (Colossians 3:14). This charity, or love, is the ultimate expression of Christ in us, binding all virtues together in perfect unity. Love is the “fulfilment of the law” and the sign that we truly belong to Christ. It is through this love that the world will know that we are His disciples (John 13:35).

In everything we do, we are called to reflect “Christ’s love,” not as a mere sentiment but as a living, active force in our lives, expressed through kindness, forgiveness, and self-sacrifice. When we live this way, we are not only honouring God but also allowing His Spirit to work freely in us, transforming our hearts and relationships into a testimony of His grace and goodness.

Knowing God carries a deeper significance than merely possessing intellectual knowledge.

On the surface, we can put on a facade, but deep within the recesses of our hearts, there are sinful dispositions that silently consume us. This is what Scripture refers to as our innate or inherent sinful nature, as described in Romans 7. For some, these vices may manifest in areas like sexual immorality, sensuality, lust of the eyes, theft, or fornication. For others, it could be uncontrolled anger, envy, hatred, or even gossip and lying, often justified as harmless “white lies.” These sinful tendencies, though varied, are all expressions of the innate or inherent sinful nature that holds us captive if left unchecked.

Jesus said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness: All these evil things come from within and defile the man—Matthew 7:20-23. It defiles us!

What else could defile us? Hebrews 12:14-17 speaks powerfully about the dangers of spiritual defilement and the importance of pursuing peace and holiness. The passage warns us that a root of bitterness can spring up within us, defiling not just ourselves but many others. It emphasises that without peace with all men and holiness, no one will see the Lord.

The Spirit of God urges us to be diligent in ensuring that we do not fall short of God’s grace, warning that bitterness, when left unchecked, can trouble us and spread, causing others to stumble as well. This bitterness can lead to the rise of other vices, such as fornication or a profane spirit, exemplified in the story of Esau. For a single moment of fleshly desire, Esau sold his birthright, trading something eternal for the temporary satisfaction of his hunger. Later, when he sought the blessing, he was rejected, unable to find a place of repentance, despite his tears. This passage serves as a reminder of the consequences of ignoring the call to holiness and peace and the need to deal with the roots of bitterness that can defile our hearts and hinder our relationship with God.

This isn’t a call to change yourself but a call to walk closely with Christ, allowing Him to cleanse and purify you. He will enable you to live in true obedience, not just through outward adherence to the law but by living a Spirit-filled life. Our responsibility is to be as Christ was to the Father—submissive to Him in every area of our lives.

In fact, it is not your duty to make yourselves holy by adherence to any laws. For if there had been a law given that could have given life, verily righteousness should have been by the law—Galatians 3:21. The righteousness of God gets imputed to us. Philippians 2:13 says, “For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure. Christ living in us is the hope of glory—Colossians 1:27. Holiness is the work of God in you, enabling you to partake in His holiness and divine nature. It is only by His grace that we can be transformed. As the Scripture says, ‘No one can receive anything unless it has been given him from heaven’ (John 3:27). The ability to walk in holiness and the divine nature is not of ourselves but is a gift from God. And the law of the Spirit in life in Christ Jesus washes us thoroughly and prepares us as vessels unto honour, sanctified and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.

Relying on our own efforts to attain holiness puts us in a dangerous cycle, just like Israel and the Galatians, who fell from grace by trying to be holy through their own works after beginning in the Spirit. This is the essence of legalism—starting in grace but then shifting to human effort, attempting to achieve righteousness through the law instead of through the Spirit. It’s like adding rules such as ‘Do not touch, do not taste, do not handle’ (Colossians 2:21), which only lead us further from the true life in the Spirit.

As Paul warns in Galatians 5:1, we are not to be entangled again in the yoke of bondage—legalism, with its false humility and outward rituals. Unfortunately, modern-day Protestants too often fall into this same trap, practicing legalistic behaviors under the guise of piety, focusing on outward appearances and man-made rules rather than on the inward transformation through the Spirit. These rituals and rules can take many forms, from strict observances of traditions to an emphasis on external morality, all of which can lead us away from the true freedom and life we have in Christ. And like in the first century, those who go against these traditions are often ostracized, marked as defectors and sinners, creating division within the body of Christ and missing the heart of the gospel.

Such man-made regulations only bring us back into slavery, whereas Christ has called us to freedom through the Spirit. The false brethren, as seen in Galatians 2:4, couldn’t bear this liberty and sought to impose these rules, but following such practices only distances us from the true freedom and life we have in Christ.

For those caught in legalism, everything becomes sin—some wear only white clothes, believing it sinful to wear anything coloured or what they deem ‘good’ clothing. Others focus solely on what goes into the stomach, much like the Pharisees—Matthew 15:17-20. They ignore the sinfulness of the heart while condemning external things, missing the true essence of righteousness. In contrast, the apostles in Acts 15:28-29 gave only a few commands to the Gentiles, such as abstaining from food offered to idols, blood, things strangled, and fornication, and explicitly stated, ‘We should not burden you with anything beyond these essential requirements.’ Legalism adds countless unnecessary rules, but true holiness is not found in outward rituals but in a heart surrendered to Christ.

Israel, despite having the law, missed the righteousness of God because they sought it through works instead of faith. As Paul warns the Galatians, ‘Having begun in the Spirit, are you now being made perfect by the flesh?’ (Galatians 3:3). This legalistic mindset only leads to frustration and failure, because true holiness comes through God’s grace, not through human effort. And in the end, such people find themselves devoid of true joy and life, having either failed the grace of God or fallen from grace itself.

We are indeed called to be the temple of the Holy Ghost. But do we truly desire to possess His fullness without first undergoing the internal cleansing and transformation that comes through Christ our Lord? The grace of God makes it possible for Christ to dwell in our hearts by faith (Ephesians 3:17). But putting on Christ is a different thing altogether—something we must aim toward, for it requires a daily commitment to live out His character and nature in our lives. After all, you cannot live out what you do not possess within, nor can you reap what you haven’t sown (Galatians 6:7). But before He can fully dwell in us, He must cleanse us thoroughly. He will only dwell in a holy place. The Spirit of Christ dwells in us as the Spirit of sonship, but for the Holy Ghost to come and dwell in us in His full glory, the temple must first be purified and in order. It is through the work of Christ that we are made a suitable dwelling place for the fullness of God. That ye might be filled with all the fulness of God – Ephesians 3:19.

James 4:8 tells us, Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded; put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts”—Ephesians 4:22; let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God—2 Corinthians 7:1.

The discipline and training that come through God’s loving correction lead us to a deeper holiness, refining us to share in His nature and righteousness. The process of sanctification is not just about obeying laws but about a deeper alignment with the heart of God (according to the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus—Romans 8), becoming more like Christ as we walk in His truth.

This is what it means to suffer as a Christian for the sake of righteousness’ cause. And if children, then heirs; heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may also be glorified together—Romans 8:17 “If we suffer, we shall also reign with Him; if we deny Him, He also will deny us.” — 2 Timothy 2:12; 1 Peter 4:13

Understand that you are integrated into “one new man” as living stones (Ephesians 2:15; 1 Peter 2:5). Just as the natural body is made up of many parts, so is Christ’s body (1 Corinthians 12:12; Ephesians 4:16). If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it (1 Corinthians 12:26). Didn’t the head of this body suffer for us? If so, how can the pain not be felt throughout the entire body? Each member shares in the pain—unless, of course, you are not truly part of it. That’s why, as a member of this body, it is inseparable from our experience to share in the sufferings of Christ (1 Peter 4:13; Romans 8:17; 2 Timothy 2:12).

What does it mean that He will deny us? Yes, it is true. Just as God did not spare the natural branches of Israel, neither will He spare us if we deny Him—Romans 11:21—by rejecting His way of life and failing to remain connected to the Vine. If we rebel, murmuring through unbelief, as the Israelites did, we are walking the same dangerous path; we risk separation from Him. Hebrews 3:12 warns that to harbour or continue in an evil heart of unbelief is to turn away from the living God. This departure is often subtle—it’s more about the condition of the heart than any outward, drastic action. It’s a matter of turning away from God and seeking hope in something else, like turning back to Egypt rather than trusting the Lord who delivered us from it. It’s a refusal to trust God when things aren’t going well, choosing to doubt His word and His guidance instead of holding fast to His promises. It’s as if we think He is failing us by not providing for us when times are rough. But then, what does the testing of our faith mean? Is it not through trials that our faith is refined, proving its genuineness? These things happened to them as examples for us, and they are written for our admonition, as 1 Corinthians 10:10-11 reminds us—”upon whom the ends of the world have come.” Their failures serve as warnings, urging us to stay vigilant and faithful so we don’t fall into the same patterns of disobedience and unbelief. The consequences they faced should stir us to examine our own hearts and remain steadfast in the faith.

To deny Him, then, is not just to speak against Him—it’s to doubt His goodness, to question His provision, and to walk as though He has abandoned us when in reality, He is working in ways we may not immediately understand. The testing of our faith is not a sign of His failure but a process to purify and strengthen us. Just as the Israelites’ rebellion in the wilderness was a failure to trust God’s promises, so too can our murmuring and unbelief keep us from experiencing the fullness of His grace. Let us, instead, hold fast to His word, trusting that He will not fail to provide even in the hardest of times.

A true Christian can experience seasons of want, lack, and seemingly unanswered prayers, which can make it feel as though God has left them or is not mindful of their needs. However, these times often have a deeper purpose. Just as God humbled and tested the Israelites in the wilderness (Deuteronomy 8:2-3), He sometimes allows His people to face difficulty to refine their faith and teach them to rely on Him. While it may seem like God is absent, these periods of testing can draw us closer to Him, strengthening our trust in His provision rather than our own understanding. As Romans 8:17-18 reminds us, suffering is part of the Christian walk, but it is temporary and leads to eternal glory. James 1:2-4 further teaches that trials develop perseverance and refine our character. So, while difficult, these times of apparent “lack” are not signs that God has forgotten us; they are part of His refining process to deepen our faith and dependence on Him.

I am writing to you in a time of deep desperation, when we can barely afford the basic necessities for our daily sustenance, and the needs of my immediate family are overwhelming. Both of my hands feel tied, and I am unable to help in the ways I want to. The natural tendency is for my mind to wander into disbelief, but in this moment, I am reminding myself to stand firm, recalling the trials endured by the holy men of the past. This path we walk is unlike the comfortable Western Christianity many are used to, isn’t it? The weight of this burden feels heavy, especially when we see others preach a message of prosperity, and we feel so far removed from it. It can make us feel out of place or even as if we’re in error. But in this moment of obscurity, I have no choice but to trust in God’s word, knowing that even in the hardest times, He is faithful.

Otherwise, what is faith for? What purpose does it serve? Is it just to work miracles? Surely, that can’t be the whole point. Faith is given to help us live and walk the path that leads to life. Without exercising faith, it’s impossible to please God—Hebrews 11:6. The fear of being separated from God through our disbelief should drive us back to Him, always.

The history of Israel serves as a sobering warning to us. 1 Corinthians 10:9-10 reminds us that God did not spare them when they rebelled but destroyed them for their disobedience and disbelief. Jude 1:5 also recalls, “Though ye once knew this, how that the Lord, having saved the people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed them that believed not.” Israel struggled to believe in the ways of Christ, often clinging to their outward possession of the law and their claim to Moses. They thought that by simply having the law, they were right with God, but in reality, they missed the fullness of what God had intended through Christ. Just as they professed adherence to the law, they often denied the true spirit of it, rejecting the very fulfilment of the law in Christ. This disconnect between their profession and their actions mirrors the warning in Titus 1:16, where mere outward declarations of faith are insufficient without true obedience and transformation.

In Psalm 78:40-41, the psalmist reflects on how the Israelites repeatedly provoked God in the wilderness, grieving Him in the desert. Despite witnessing His mighty works, they turned back, tested God, and limited the Holy One of Israel through their unbelief and disobedience. This provocation is further echoed in Hebrews 3:8, where we are warned not to harden our hearts “as in the provocation, in the day of temptation in the wilderness.” The Israelites’ failure to trust God during their time of trial led them to test His patience and grieve His Spirit, serving as a powerful reminder for us today not to follow the same path of rebellion and disbelief.

Well, because of unbelief, they were broken off, and you stand by faith. Be not high-minded, but fear: for if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee. Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward you, goodness, if you continue in his goodness; otherwise you also shall be cut off—Romans 11:19-22.

Likewise, we too might face our own wilderness testing—moments when our faith is challenged, and we are tempted to doubt God’s provision and goodness. Just as the Israelites did, we might struggle to trust God in the midst of hardship. But their story serves as a cautionary tale for us: we must not harden our hearts or turn away in disbelief when faced with trials. Instead, we are called to trust God, knowing that, just as He was with the Israelites in their wilderness, He remains with us through our own tests, refining and strengthening our faith. What a comfort it is to know that the Lord will never leave us alone to walk this path but has given us His Spirit. The same Spirit that empowered the saints of old now dwells in us, guiding, comforting, and strengthening us in our trials. In our moments of weakness, He is our constant companion, reminding us that we are never truly alone, even when the road is hard.

In Acts 7:39, Stephen recounts how the Israelites, despite experiencing God’s deliverance, “would not obey but thrust him from them, and in their hearts turned back again into Egypt.” This reflects a deeper spiritual rebellion, where their hearts longed for the security of their past in Egypt, rather than trusting in the God who was leading them to freedom. Likewise, we too are prone to “thrust the Lord from us” through disbelief. In moments of trial or hardship, when God’s ways don’t align with our expectations, it’s easy to turn our hearts back to the comfort of the familiar, much like the Israelites did. This warning, then, is not just a historical lesson but a caution directed toward us as well: if we harden our hearts in disbelief, we risk turning away from the very God who calls us to trust Him, even when the way forward is uncertain. The same caution given to the Israelites applies to us today, urging us to remain steadfast in faith, even when faced with trials that challenge our understanding.

Many Christians, without realising it, have already turned back in their hearts, deceiving themselves and unaware of their true stance with the Lord. Their regular church attendance leads them to believe that all is well, assuming that the Lord is pleased with their outward rituals, not recognising that true devotion goes beyond mere acts and requires a heart that is fully surrendered to Him.

Titus 1:16 says, “They profess that they know God, but in works they deny him, being abominable and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate.” (KJV) This highlights the truth that it’s not enough to merely profess knowledge about God—knowing His principles, commandments, and doctrines—without truly applying them to one’s life or having a deep, relational understanding of Him. Gnosis refers to this kind of superficial knowledge. On the other hand, epignosis is intimate, experiential knowledge that goes beyond just intellectual assent. It’s about knowing God in a relational, heart-transforming way through His Word, and it leads to spiritual maturity.

So, to deny His ways—His commandments, His teachings, His character—is to deny Him in practice. When we refuse to follow His ways, we effectively reject His authority in our lives. This aligns with the biblical principle that true faith is demonstrated through obedience, and without it, our profession of knowing God is hollow. And as Jesus said, in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men (Matthew 15:9).

The phrase “believed not” carries a profound meaning, linking it not only to a lack of intellectual belief but also to disobedience and a lack of trust in God’s ways. For in their hearts, they turned back to Egypt. As Acts 7:39 says, “To whom our fathers would not obey, but thrust him from them, and in their hearts turned back again into Egypt.”

This serves as a clear reminder that true belief cannot be separated from obedience, and rejecting God’s ways brings us back into spiritual bondage. Isn’t it time to examine whether we truly possess this kind of knowledge—epignosis?

Isn’t it a question we all must ask ourselves: Will we trust the Lord our God when times are tough and we are in need?

When times are tough and challenges feel overwhelming, that’s when I feel a deep excitement rise in my spirit. Instead of complaining or grieving God’s heart, I learnt to choose to thank Him for the trials. Though my flesh may be burning, my spirit rejoices—this also I’ve learnt should be the true posture of a Christian. If our inner stance is one of gloom and despair, it’s a sign we need to check our spiritual foundation. Are we truly rooted and grounded in Christ and His Word?

I can’t boast that I’ve always been steady and steadfast, but the goodness of God has kept me and led me to be planted in His Word. This is what it means to be founded upon the rock. When the tide rises and the storm hits, the house built on that foundation will stand the test of time, for it is anchored on the solid, unshakeable rock of Christ.

Come to Christ and bring all your sorrows, needs, petitions, and everything you lack to Him—He is more than enough for you. What you lack, He will supply through His eternal Spirit. He longs for a deep and intimate fellowship with you. If you feel unworthy of Him, you may be right in acknowledging your shortcomings, but know this: you are still worthy to receive Christ, the Lord and King, as your partner. Just stay true to His Word, and He will meet you where you are.

Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up—James 4:10. Be clothed with humility, for God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble. Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon him, for he cares for you—1 Peter 5:5-7.

The Word of God tells us to “leap for joy” in the midst of trials—Luke 6:22-23 says, “Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven.” James 5:11 reminds us, “Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job and have seen the end of the Lord, that the Lord is very pitiful and of tender mercy.” Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him—Psalm 1033:13. Look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God—Hebrews 12:1,2. If we endure, God deals with us as with sons—Hebrews 12:7. The just shall live by faith, but if any man draw back (in times of trials and faith are tried), my soul shall have no pleasure in him – Hebrews 10:38. Abraham did not waver in unbelief but remained strong in faith, giving glory to God. We, too, are called to follow in those same steps of faith—Romans 4:12, 29. And in James 1:2, we are instructed, “My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations.” These verses remind us that our trials are not in vain but are opportunities to grow in faith and trust, with the promise of a great reward in heaven and God’s tender mercy guiding us through.

The word “temptations” in James 1:2 (where it says, “count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations”) is the Greek word “peirasmos” (πειρασμός).“Peirasmos” refers to trials or tests that challenge our faith. These can be difficult circumstances or situations that test our patience, endurance, and trust in God. The verse encourages believers to count it as joy, not because of the difficulty itself, but because of the opportunity to grow spiritually and rely on God’s strength through those trials.

Can you find one person in the Scriptures whose faith was never tested or tried? For it is through sufferings that we are shaped, as suffering builds perseverance, perseverance builds character, and character leads to hope (Romans 5:3-4). Moreover, as Hebrews 12:5-11 and 2 Peter 1:4 remind us, though it is grievous, suffering refines us, helping us partake in the divine nature and share in His holiness. And there are no shortcuts—this is the process that leads to true transformation.

These days, many talk about fellowship with the Lord, but do they emphasise that true fellowship is not merely superficial? Fellowship with Christ also means sharing in His sufferings. We are called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord (1 Corinthians 1:9). This is exactly what the Apostle Paul sought after: “That I may know Him, and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death; if by any means I might attain unto the resurrection of the dead” (Philippians 3:10-11). True fellowship with Christ involves both the power of His resurrection and the intimacy of His sufferings.

When we let the word of Christ dwell in us richly, in all wisdom, we come to possess this experiential knowledge—Colossians 3:16. 1 John 2:13-14 states that those who are born of God and in whom the love of God dwells have known Him. Similarly, 1 John 4:12 says that if we love one another, God dwells in us, and this indwelling of God through His eternal Spirit is what imparts that knowledge of the Holy One.

We often know how to sidestep such a life, opting for a more comfortable version of Christianity. Yet, we must understand that the outcomes of these two paths are starkly different in the end. Can we truly neglect so great a salvation and expect to escape the consequences? Ministers of Satan, disguised as ministers of righteousness (2 Corinthians 11:14-15), have infiltrated to teach a different way from what has been established. This is the path the majority prefer, as they seek to satisfy their itching ears and reject sound doctrine (2 Timothy 4:3).

Just as children naturally know their father because of the blood connection, those who are born of God come to know God through the spiritual rebirth and the intimate, relational knowledge that results from that connection—da’at or epignosis.

In Matthew 7:21-23, Jesus is addressing those who claimed to have done works in His name—prophesying, casting out demons, and performing miracles—and yet, despite all their outward religious activities, Jesus declares, ‘I never knew you, workers of iniquity.’ This statement goes beyond merely not being acquainted with them. It highlights the reality that they never had an intimate, relational connection with Jesus and failed to purge themselves from inherent corruption. As Scripture commands, we are to ‘cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God’ (2 Corinthians 7:1). They also neglected to ‘put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts’ (Ephesians 4:22; Colossians 3:8,9). For ‘the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness‘ (Romans 1:18). So the “knowing” Jesus refers to here is not intellectual knowledge or even surface-level acknowledgement but da’at, the deep, relational knowledge that comes through a genuine spiritual connection that comes through living out His word. For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that we should abstain from fornication: that every one of us should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor—1 Timothy 4:3, 4.

In the Hebrew Scriptures, “knowing” often speaks of intimacy—as when the Bible says “Adam knew Eve” (Genesis 4:1), which signifies a deep, personal, and intimate relationship, not just awareness or recognition. This same idea applies when Jesus speaks about knowing His followers. In John 10:14, He says, “I am the good shepherd, and I know my sheep and am known of mine.” This knowing is the deep relational connection between Christ and His followers, built on the new birth and ongoing communion with Him in everything.

When Jesus says, “I never knew you,” He is declaring that those people never entered into this kind of intimate relationship with Him. Though they might have done religious works, they did not possess da’at, the experiential, relational knowledge that comes through being born of the Spirit and being united with Christ in His sufferings. If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if you are without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then you are bastards and not sons—Hebrews 12:7, 8.

This knowing is a sign of intimacy with Christ—those who are genuinely born again are brought into a real, transformative relationship with Him. But those who do not know Him in this way, despite their outward religious appearances, are estranged from Him.

  • “I never knew you” highlights that the relationship with Jesus is not about religious actions or even professed belief; it’s about being united with Him through the new birth, where we receive the life of God (zoē) and come to know Him in the most intimate, experiential way.
  • The da’at that comes through the new birth is what enables us to know God as our Father and Jesus as our Saviour. If this personal connection is missing, then, despite outward appearances or religious works, the relationship is not genuine, and Jesus will say, “I never knew you.”

In sum, the “I never knew you” statement is deeply tied to the idea of da’at—a spiritual, intimate knowledge that is rooted in being born of God. Without this relationship, no amount of religious activity or outward obedience can bring one into true communion with Christ.

In the case of Jesus’ statement, ‘I never knew you, workers of iniquity‘ (Matthew 7:23), He’s referring to those who profess faith but have not been transformed by it. They continue in sin, without a true, repentant relationship with Him, remaining spiritually immature and carnally oriented—‘still babes in Christ’ (1 Corinthians 3:1-3).

Psalm 69:27 warns, ‘Add iniquity unto their iniquity, and let them not come into thy righteousness.’ In parallel, Romans 6:19 says, ‘I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh; for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity, even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.’ This is a clear statement of judgement upon those who persist in their corruption and do not continuously yield their members to righteousness or come to the throne of grace to deal with their inner corruption through the Spirit and His Word.

One could now ask, can a person exercise spiritual gifts without having da’at, the intimate, relational knowledge of God? Yes, a person can, as evidenced in Matthew 7:21-23, where individuals who prophesy, cast out demons, and perform miracles in Jesus’ name are still rejected because they never truly knew Him. While the gifts and calling of God are without repentance (Romans 11:29), meaning God can use people for His purposes even without a personal relationship with Him or perfecting holiness or without the righteousness of God upon them, spiritual gifts do not guarantee salvation or intimacy with God.

The parable of the labourers in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16) highlights God’s sovereignty in distributing His grace, where even those who labour for only a short time receive the same reward, but it doesn’t imply they have a deep, eternal relationship with the master. Similarly, spiritual gifts can be exercised without a personal connection to Christ. However, while these gifts are meant for God’s service, they are intended to point to something deeper—the da’at of God, the transformative knowledge that comes through being born again. Spiritual gifts, though powerful, should not be confused with the eternal, life-giving relationship that comes from truly knowing God.

I want to bring in a few more verses that tie together beautifully, revealing the profound process of spiritual transformation and enlightenment that happens through the Holy Spirit. This process, at its core, is deeply connected to epígnosis—the intimate, transformative knowledge of God that shapes and matures the believer.

1. Revelation 3:18—The Call to Seek the Word and Spiritual Clarity

In Revelation 3:18, Jesus offers a call to the church to “buy of me gold tried in the fire” and “anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that thou mayest see.” The gold tried in the fire represents the refined truth of God’s Word (as silver tried in a furnace of earth (the body of Jesus), purified seven times—Psalm 12:6), which is purifying and valuable. The eye salve, on the other hand, symbolises the spiritual clarity that only comes when we truly understand and apply God’s Word. This epígnosis (the deep, relational knowledge of God) is not merely about intellectual knowledge but about an intimate understanding of God’s will and ways through the Word.

Jesus is urging us to seek out the deeper truths of His Word, which can only be truly seen and understood through the Holy Spirit. The Spirit illuminates the Scriptures, opening our eyes to see and apply God’s truth in our lives.

The phrase “buy of me gold tried in the fire” (Revelation 3:18) can be understood as a call to engage in a spiritual transaction or trade, not involving literal money or material wealth, but rather symbolising spiritual value that demands sacrifice and commitment. The “gold tried in the fire” represents refined, purified faith—faith and the word of God that have been tested through trials and tribulations, emerging stronger and more genuine. The act of “buying” suggests that in order to receive this purified faith and true riches, one must surrender something of lesser value. As Paul writes in Philippians 3:7-9, “But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ. Yes, doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ and be found in Him, not having mine own righteousness.” This is the trade: exchanging the worldly for the eternal, where you surrender your life, desires, and self-reliance for the righteousness of God and a deeper relationship with Him. The call is to continuously trade the temporary for the eternal, sacrificing the things of this world in exchange for spiritual riches that cannot be taken away. It is not a one-time transaction but a lifelong commitment to follow Christ and allow Him to refine you.

How can we expect to gain what is above without first letting go of what we cling to here below? What does the Bible say to us? Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth—Colossians 3:2. To grasp the eternal, we must release the temporal. The things we hold tightly—our comfort, security, and earthly attachments—are often the very things that prevent us from reaching for the higher, lasting riches in Christ. Until we are willing to surrender what we hold secure under our arms, we cannot fully embrace the fullness of what God offers us above. It’s a call to let go in faith, trusting that what God has in store is far greater than anything we could hold onto in this world.

To “set your affection” means to intentionally direct your heart, mind, and desires toward something or someone—particularly aligning them with God and His Kingdom. In Colossians 3:2, when we are told to “set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth,” it’s not just about emotional attachment but about where we focus our priorities and energy. It’s a deliberate choice to prioritize God’s Kingdom and His will over the temporary things of this world.

Setting your affection on things above doesn’t necessarily mean engaging in traditional ministry; rather, it means aligning your life with Christ and His Word, allowing them to shape every decision and action. It’s about becoming more like Christ—letting Him be the central focus of your life and shaping everything from relationships to goals according to His values. This involves being intentional with your time, energy, and resources in a way that reflects your true identity as a child of God, rather than chasing fleeting worldly pleasures.

It also means not letting the pursuit of possessions, career success, or worldly comforts define you. Instead, seeking God’s Kingdom first, finding satisfaction in His eternal promises, and living in a way that reflects your identity in Christ. In every pursuit—whether family, career, or personal ambitions—your relationship with Christ should be the driving force, ensuring that you aren’t consumed by the temporary things of this world.

In fact, Jesus made it clear that following Him requires a careful consideration of the cost. As He said in Luke 14:28-33, “For which of you, intending to build a tower, sits not down first and counts the cost, whether he has sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’ Or what king, going to make war against another king, sits not down first and consults whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends an embassage and desires conditions of peace. So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsakes not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple.” Following Christ means being willing to forsake all we hold dear in this world and counting the cost of that surrender. It’s a radical call to let go of the temporary in order to gain the eternal.

To win Christ, we must let go of our own life. This is what we profess—that we are crucified with Him, no longer living for ourselves, but allowing Christ to live in us. But are we truly meaning what we profess? Do we fully live out this surrender, or is it just words we speak without the depth of true transformation? John 12:25, He that loves his life shall lose it, and he that hates his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal. For no man can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will hold to the one and despise the other.

You cannot serve God and mammon” (Matthew 6:24). James 4:4 warns that anyone who pursues their own desires above God’s will is considered an adulterer or an adulteress, and even an enemy of God. This speaks to spiritual whoredom, where one coalesces with the spirit of the world rather than being faithful to God. 1 John 2:15-16 further admonishes, “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father, but is of the world.” This is a clear warning against aligning with the world’s values, which stand in opposition to God’s.

Can you imagine modern Christianity, where many openly disregard these principles, yet unabashedly display such worship on stage, all while calling Jesus ‘Lord, Lord’? As the Lord says, ‘In vain do they worship Me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men’ (Matthew 15:9). Yet, Jesus clearly states, ‘He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me; and My Father will love him, and We will come unto him and make Our abode with him. He that loves Me not keeps not My sayings; and the word which ye hear is not Mine, but the Father’s which sent Me’ (John 14:21-24).

Let me make this clear: setting your affection on things above doesn’t mean disregarding important responsibilities like caring for your family. It’s about finding the right balance—prioritising Christ and His Kingdom while still fulfilling your duties in the world, including loving and providing for your family. Balancing both is key. The focus is on ensuring that your relationship with Christ shapes how you approach everything, including family, work, and other commitments, rather than allowing worldly concerns to take the place of your spiritual priorities. It’s about integrating your faith into every aspect of life, giving Christ the central place without neglecting your God-given responsibilities.

In fact, the Bible makes it clear that neglecting our family or failing to provide for them is a serious matter. 1 Timothy 5:8 warns, “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an infidel.” This underscores that caring for our family is not only a duty but also an essential part of living out our faith. So, while our ultimate allegiance is to Christ, this should never lead to neglecting our responsibilities to those closest to us. True spiritual devotion doesn’t disregard the practical aspects of life; instead, it shapes how we fulfil our roles as spouses, parents, and providers, ensuring that both our love for God and our love for our families are given their rightful place.

However, it’s important to recognise that God understands the challenges people face, and His heart is compassionate toward those who are genuinely unable to meet their needs due to circumstances like illness, job loss, or other hardships. The verse in 1 Timothy 5:8 speaks primarily to those who have the means to provide but deliberately withhold support or fail to take responsibility for their families. It’s about wilful neglect, not the inability to provide because of external factors. Our Heavenly Father sees our hearts and knows our struggles, and His grace covers those who genuinely desire to provide but are hindered by their circumstances. And as a community of believers, we are called to support one another in times of need, fulfilling the law of love by caring for those who are struggling (Galatians 6:10).

Modern Christianity, especially in certain circles, often promotes a mindset of balancing both worlds—keeping one foot in the world and one in Christendom. This approach tends to encourage people to pursue their earthly passions, careers, comforts, desires, and securities while also claiming the benefits of a relationship with Christ. It’s a convenient path that allows for the best of both worlds: worldly pleasures and spiritual promises.

However, the Scriptures make it clear that such a divided commitment is not what Christ calls His followers to. Jesus Himself said, “No man can serve two masters” (Matthew 6:24). Trying to hold on to both earthly attachments and a full surrender to God creates a spiritual imbalance. It’s like trying to build a tower without counting the cost or attempting to fight a battle without being fully prepared. As we’ve seen in Luke 14:28-33, Jesus encourages us to carefully consider what it means to follow Him, emphasising that true discipleship requires wholehearted commitment. In the Kingdom of God, there’s no room for divided loyalty.

The truth is, when we try to keep one foot in the world and one in Christ, we risk losing both. The world’s security, comforts, and attachments will always hold us back from fully embracing the eternal, transforming riches that are only found in Christ. True discipleship requires a complete surrender—a willingness to let go of the temporary in exchange for the eternal.

The passage from Hebrews 11:6, “God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him,” highlights the importance of diligence in our pursuit of God. Diligence, in this context, means actively and intentionally seeking God with a focused, consistent effort. It’s not a passive or occasional pursuit, but a wholehearted commitment to growing closer to Him through prayer, scripture, and living out our faith. This diligent seeking requires prioritizing God, making time to engage with Him, and doing so with a heart full of faith, trusting that He rewards those who earnestly pursue Him. Ultimately, this verse encourages us to be persistent in our pursuit of God, knowing that while His rewards may not always be earthly, they come in the form of spiritual blessings, divine guidance, and a deeper, more intimate relationship with Him.

2. Ephesians 1:18—Enlightenment of the Understanding

In Ephesians 1:18, Paul prays that the ‘eyes of your understanding be enlightened,’ highlighting the need for spiritual insight. This echoes the imagery in Revelation 3:18, where Christ offers to anoint the believer’s eyes with eye salve so they can see clearly. It’s not a matter of self-anointing but of humbly seeking Christ, who opens our eyes to the deeper truths of His Word and Kingdom.

Yes, our spiritual eyes are opened at the new birth, but the vision is often limited for a babe in Christ. As a result, such individuals are unskilled in the word of righteousness, as Hebrews 5:13-14 states. 1 Corinthians 3:1-3 also serves as a prime example of this, where Paul addresses the Corinthians as infants in Christ, unable to handle deeper spiritual truths because they are still carnal and immature in their faith. This spiritual immaturity led to division and jealousy among them, even though such behaviours were “not even heard among the heathens” (1 Corinthians 5:1), revealing the depth of their fallen condition despite their new birth.

It is a progressive journey toward maturity; it involves replacing the law of sin and death, which is in our members, with the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus (Romans 8). It is the putting off of the corrupt self through the sanctification of the Holy Spirit and by the washing of water by the word (Ephesians 4:22; 5:26; Colossians 3:8; James 4). It is the replacement of earthly, sensual, and devilish wisdom with the wisdom that comes from above, which is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy (James 3:17). Only a person who has transitioned from being a babe in Christ to a spiritually mature believer can acquire this wisdom, as such a person possesses the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:14-16).

James 3 speaks of the unbridled tongue as a sign of spiritual immaturity, highlighting the difficulty of controlling our speech and its potential to lead us astray. The tongue, when uncontrolled, can be like a fire, ‘foaming out hellfire,’ capable of causing great destruction (James 3:6). Such a person has no rule over their spirit, and Proverbs 25:28 says, ‘He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls.’ One can only imagine the state of ‘a city that is broken down’ and its vulnerability to enemy invasion. This reveals how the lack of self-control, especially in speech, reflects deeper spiritual instability. A spiritually mature person, however, has learnt to govern their words and emotions, showcasing the power of the Holy Spirit working within them to bring true transformation and control. As they mature in Christ, they develop the ability to tame their tongue and exercise self-control, demonstrating growth in wisdom, stability, and Christlikeness.”

James 1:26 also says, “If any man among you seems to be religious and bridles not his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is vain.” Isn’t that related to James 1:22, which says, “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves“? This emphasises that a lack of control over the tongue is a serious issue, revealing that a person’s outward religious expression can be hollow if it is not accompanied by a transformed life. Such a one is a mere hearer of the Word and not a doer. James compares this person to a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror: ‘For he beholds himself, and goes his way, and straightway forgets what manner of man he was.’ In other words, though he sees the truth, he doesn’t act on it and soon forgets what he has seen. However, ‘whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty and continues therein, he being not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.’ This is the difference between just hearing the Word and allowing it to transform your life by putting it into practice. The blessing comes to those who actively live out God’s Word, demonstrating true spiritual maturity as they progressively develop the mind of Christ. And this transformation can only be achieved by acquiring epignosis or da’at.

This process involves more than just knowing the Scriptures; it’s about applying them to every area of life, allowing the Holy Spirit to renew our thoughts, actions, and desires. As we grow in our relationship with Christ, we begin to reflect His character, wisdom, and love. The more we live out God’s Word, the more we align our thoughts and actions with the mind of Christ, which is the ultimate goal of spiritual maturity.

James 3:2 may sound intimidating as it exposes the truth about our imperfections, but it also offers hope. It says, “For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man”—a person who is mature in the Word of righteousness, unlike a babe in Christ (as described in Hebrews 5:13-14). Such a person is able to bridle the whole body, demonstrating spiritual maturity and self-control. Here, James acknowledges the challenge of perfect speech but assures us that mastering the tongue is one of the signs of spiritual maturity and self-control, and it is through this control that one becomes more aligned with God’s will, able to govern the entire body and life in righteousness.

James 3:2 and 2 Timothy 3:16-17 offer a powerful parallel on spiritual maturity. James highlights that the person who can control their speech is considered “perfect,” or mature, capable of controlling their whole body. This connects with 2 Timothy 3:16-17, where Scripture is described as essential for teaching, correcting, and training in righteousness. The purpose of Scripture is to equip the believer, making them “perfect” or fully mature, thoroughly prepared for every good work.

Just as controlling the tongue is a sign of spiritual maturity in James, the application of God’s Word in our lives perfects us, shaping us to reflect Christ in all areas, including our speech. Both verses point to the transformative power of God’s Word in leading us to true spiritual maturity. The control of our words, much like our overall growth in Christ, requires ongoing learning, application, and the power of the Holy Spirit to bring about the inner transformation that manifests in our outward actions.

As we allow God’s Word to dwell richly in us, we are gradually conformed to His image, and our speech becomes one of the clearest signs of that spiritual maturity, reflecting not only self-discipline but also the character of Christ and our inner man’s stance. If any man can control his tongue, he is identified as a ‘perfect’ man—one who can bridle the whole body.

This is the display of the spirit man, created after God in righteousness and true holiness. It reveals his true identity, the prowess and might he has come to possess—Ephesians 3:16—even the ability to control the doors of hell, as James 3 describes: ‘The tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison and a world of iniquity that defiles the person.’

Achieving control over our spirit, or allowing the spirit to govern the entire being, is something supernatural and life-altering. The perfected man, as the same chapter explains, brings forth good fruit, and clean water flows from within. Hebrews 12:23 identifies such individuals as the spirits of just men made perfect. Mark 7:20-23 presents a stark contrast to this, revealing the defilement that comes from within when the spirit is not governed. And one can only imagine the liberation this would bring to the soul, which is at the heart of the abundant life Jesus spoke of. You cannot truly claim to possess this life unless you confront and overcome the inner chaos within.

We must replace the law of sin and death, which is deeply embedded in our flesh, with the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus, as Paul explains in Romans 7:16-23 and 8:2. This is not a passive process but requires an active effort to submit our will to the Holy Spirit. It takes intentional labour according to the Spirit to experience this transformation. As John 6:27 reminds us, ‘Labour not for the meat which perishes, but for that meat which endureth unto everlasting life, which the Son of man shall give unto you: for him hath God the Father sealed.’ The work of replacing the old nature with the life of Christ demands effort—an ongoing commitment to seek after what lasts forever, rather than what is fleeting. It is a spiritual pursuit that requires diligence, surrender, and the constant application of God’s Word to bring about real change, moving us from death to life.

How are we going to undertake this task if we are so engrossed in the affairs of life until the day we leave this earth? If our attention is consumed by the fleeting pleasures and distractions of this world, how can we expect to experience the transformation that Christ calls us to? The constant pursuit of temporal things, such as career, wealth, and personal desires, can easily overshadow the eternal work the Holy Spirit wants to do in us. In order to replace the law of sin and death with the law of the Spirit of life, we must shift our focus, prioritise what is lasting, and be intentional in cultivating a life that is rooted in the Word of God. This requires time, effort, and a shift in priorities—a conscious decision to allow God’s will to take precedence over the noise of everyday life. Only then will we be able to walk in the fullness of what God has for us, moving from spiritual infancy to maturity in Christ.

It is only through the ongoing application of the Word of Christ, allowing it to dwell in us richly in all wisdom, that the eyes of our understanding are fully illuminated to see the things of God clearly. The Holy Spirit plays a vital role here, bringing epígnosis—a deep, experiential understanding of the Word of God, which results in spiritual enlightenment.

The Christian life is a serious endeavour—it’s much deeper than just attending church, engaging in church activities, experiencing emotional highs during worship, or even exercising the gifts of the Spirit.

The Blessed LONGING: Seeking the FULLNESS of GOD in a World of Deficiency

There is a deep, innate longing within the human soul—a vacuum, an ache that many of us cannot name but can feel. It is a longing for more, for something beyond what we can see, touch, or fully comprehend. For the true seeker, this longing is the desire to experience God in His fullness, to be fully filled with His Spirit, to walk in the tangible presence of His glory. And yet, for many of us, this fullness often feels out of reach.

We find ourselves in the tension of yearning for God’s presence while living in a world of apparent insufficiency. We long to see Him, to experience the touch of His Spirit in tangible ways—yet we often face seasons where we feel distant, where the vacuum of longing seems unfulfilled.

But could it be that this vacuum, this very emptiness, is not a sign of God’s absence but of His divine invitation to seek Him? Could it be that this longing within us is a reflection of what was lost in the Garden of Eden—and yet a promise of what will one day be restored in Christ? Indeed, the fullness of God is something we must seek, and in seeking, we draw closer to the very heart of God.

Jesus said, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed” (John 20:29), pointing to a faith that transcends physical sight. This blessed longing is not just about the desire to see or experience God tangibly but is about the faith that believes without seeing. It is this kind of faith, rooted in trust rather than sight, that deepens our relationship with Him, even in our seasons of longing. The vacuum of longing becomes a divine invitation to embrace faith without sight, a call to trust in God’s promises even when we cannot physically experience His fullness.

The Vacuum as a Divine Invitation

The vacuum within us, this longing for more of God, is a deliberate and profound part of God’s design. If God did not want us to experience His fullness, He would not have created within us such a divine yearning—a longing for something beyond ourselves. It’s a reflection of the spiritual void that humanity faces since the Fall of Adam, when we were originally created to walk in perfect fellowship with God. The ache we feel is both a result of the Fall and a sign of what will be restored in Christ.

In the Garden, Adam and Eve experienced perfect communion with God. Their sin broke that fellowship, and in its wake, humanity has been left with a longing for that original relationship. This vacuum, this thirst for more of God, drives us to seek Him more fully. And yet, as we see, this very absence is also a divine invitation. God could have chosen to fill this gap immediately, but He has chosen instead to call us into deeper pursuit. We are meant to search for Him with all our hearts (Jeremiah 29:13), knowing that in the seeking, we are drawn closer to Him.

Romans 8:22-23 adds a profound layer to this understanding of longing, not just as a personal experience but as part of a broader cosmic reality. Paul writes, “We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies.”

In this passage, Paul links our individual longing for redemption to the groaning of all creation. Just as we feel the ache of unfulfilled desires for God’s presence, creation itself longs for the ultimate fulfilment of God’s promises—the restoration of all things. This longing is not merely an individual experience but part of a larger, divine narrative of redemption that encompasses the whole world.

The tension we feel between the “already” of our salvation and the “not yet” of the fullness of God’s Kingdom is reflected in creation itself. We, as human beings, are caught in the overlap of the two ages—living in a fallen world while also being recipients of God’s firstfruits through the Holy Spirit. Our personal longing is, therefore, a small but significant part of a cosmic groaning that looks forward to the redemption of our bodies and the restoration of all creation. This connection between personal longing and cosmic redemption ties our individual experiences of yearning directly to God’s ultimate plan to restore and redeem not only humanity but all of creation.

The Paradox of Seeking and Longing 

In this pursuit, there is a paradox: the more we seek God’s fullness, the more we become aware of our lack. Yet, this lack serves to refine and perfect our faith. It’s not that God does not want to meet us in our longing, but that He desires to test and refine our faith as we wait. The absence of immediate fulfilment is the very thing that causes our faith to grow stronger, just as gold is refined by fire. Our longing is not a sign of failure or spiritual deficiency but part of a divine process that deepens our trust in God.

This paradox is not just a personal experience but reflects the very nature of the Kingdom of God. Jesus taught that the Kingdom is both “already” present and “not yet” fully realised. In Luke 17:21, He declares, “The kingdom of God is in your midst” (or “within you”). This present reality of the Kingdom, which is already here in the person and work of Jesus, is experienced through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and the life of the Church. We experience the “already” of God’s Kingdom in the sense that we have received the first fruits of the Spirit, a taste of His Kingdom to come, and have been transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the Kingdom of His Son (Colossians 1:13).

However, while we experience the “already,” we also live in the tension of the “not yet.” The fullness of God’s Kingdom is still to come—the complete restoration of all things, the new heavens and new earth, and the final victory over sin and death. In this “already-not-yet” time, we feel the tension of longing for what has been promised but has not yet been fully realised.

This tension manifests in our spiritual journey as we experience both God’s presence and the absence of its fullness. Ephesians 1:13-14 speaks of the Holy Spirit as a “seal” and a “guarantee” of our inheritance, yet we still long for the final redemption of our bodies and the complete fulfilment of God’s promises. The Spirit’s indwelling presence is a foretaste, a deposit, of the fullness that is to come. And so, we experience a paradox: the Kingdom is “already” here, but not yet fully realised, and our longing for God reflects this in-between time.

In this sense, our longing is not a sign of spiritual failure but a vital part of the Christian journey. It reflects the heart of the “already-not-yet” tension we live in. As we wait for the final fulfilment of God’s promises, we long for more of His presence. This yearning for the “not yet” helps deepen our intimacy with God in the “already,” teaching us to rely on His Spirit and trust in the hope of future glory. Just as Romans 8:23 reminds us, “We ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies,” we live in a state of longing, even as we experience the “firstfruits” of the Kingdom today.

This paradox is further illustrated by the life of the Apostle Paul, who spoke of his deep yearning to know Christ more fully, even if that meant experiencing suffering. He desired the fullness of God but understood that true fellowship with God involves both the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings (Philippians 3:10). Paul’s longing was not disconnected from the “already-not-yet” tension but was a reflection of it. As he sought God’s fullness, he recognised that the trials and suffering he endured were part of the refining process that deepened his relationship with Christ. Just as gold is refined by fire, so too, through suffering and longing, our faith is strengthened.

In this pursuit of God, through trials, perseverance, and longing, we grow spiritually. The “already” reality of God’s presence gives us strength to endure the “not yet” fulfilment, knowing that as we press on, we are being transformed into Christ’s image. This tension between the now and the not yet is a central theme in the Christian walk, teaching us to rely not on what we can see or touch, but on the promises of God that we trust by faith.

The Role of Trials and Waiting in Sanctification

This theme of longing for God’s fullness while enduring the absence—the gap between what we know to be true about God and what we feel in the moment—is a crucial aspect of the sanctification process. Trials test our faith, and it is precisely in the midst of waiting for the fullness of God that our faith is refined. It’s a process that demands perseverance and trust. James 1:2-4 makes this clear, stating that the testing of our faith produces perseverance, leading to spiritual maturity. The absence, the seeming vacuum of God’s presence, is not only a trial but also a tool for transformation.

In the wilderness of waiting, we are given an opportunity to press in further, to cultivate deeper faith, and to trust that God is at work even when we cannot perceive His presence. It is in this tension between what we seek and what we experience that our faith is refined, tested, and purified.

Yet this process goes beyond mere endurance—it leads to something even greater. Romans 5:3-4 reminds us that “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” This verse deepens our understanding of the sanctification process. It’s not just about enduring trials but about how those trials produce a greater hope. As we endure suffering and waiting, our perseverance is tested, and from this perseverance, our character is shaped. But the ultimate outcome is hope—a hope that does not disappoint because it is anchored in the promises of God.

The “vacuum” of God’s presence, while painful, is not without purpose. In fact, it becomes a furnace in which our character is refined. The deeper our longing, the stronger our perseverance; the stronger our perseverance, the more our character reflects the likeness of Christ. Through this process, we develop an unshakeable hope, a hope that empowers us to keep pressing forward, knowing that the fullness we long for will one day be realised.

The Blessed Fellowship of the Spirit in the Present

While only a few will enter into the deepest fellowship with the Spirit in this present age, that does not mean that God is withholding His presence from His children. The Holy Spirit has been given to all believers as a guarantee of the fullness to come. Even now, God is at work in our lives, transforming us, renewing us, and filling us with His presence, though not always in the dramatic or tangible ways that we might desire.

Ephesians 1:13-14 speaks of the Holy Spirit as a seal of our inheritance, saying, “When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession.” The Holy Spirit, though He does not always manifest Himself in powerful ways, is still at work within us, and He is the down payment of the fullness we will one day experience in eternity.

In the meantime, we press on in faith, knowing that the longing we feel is not wasted. Our faith, though it may feel weak at times, is precious in God’s sight. It is through our longing, our waiting, and our seeking that we grow deeper into the fullness of Christ. This is where faith without sight shines—through the Holy Spirit, we experience God’s presence even when we cannot see or touch Him directly.

However, the fruit of the Spirit offers us a powerful reminder that God’s presence is still at work within us, even in times of longing and waiting. In Galatians 5:22-23, Paul outlines the evidence of the Spirit’s work: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” These qualities are tangible signs of God’s ongoing presence, even in the absence of dramatic spiritual experiences. While we may long for a greater revelation of God or a more tangible encounter with the Holy Spirit, the fruit of the Spirit assures us that He is still moving within us.

In our waiting, the Holy Spirit cultivates these virtues in us—love when we feel alone, joy in the midst of sorrow, peace when turmoil surrounds us, and patience when it feels like fulfilment is delayed. These fruits of the Spirit are not simply abstract ideals; they are evidence of God’s work, a quiet but profound testimony to His ongoing presence and transformative power.

Even when we feel the vacuum of longing or the weight of waiting, the Holy Spirit is shaping our character to reflect the likeness of Christ. These qualities become not only the markers of spiritual growth but also the proof of God’s faithfulness. Through them, we experience the kingdom “already” present in us, as they bring glimpses of the future fulfilment when we will experience God’s presence fully and without restraint.

The Ultimate Fulfilment: Glory to Come

Ultimately, the fullness of God that we long for will only be fully realised in the age to come. In 1 John 3:2, we are reminded that “when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.” The fullness we seek will be perfectly fulfilled when we are glorified, when our bodies and souls are transformed to be like Christ, and when we are fully united with Him. In that day, the vacuum will be no more. We will experience the fullness of God in ways that we can scarcely imagine.

Revelation 21:3-4 gives us a glorious picture of this future hope:

“And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, ‘Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.’”

In that day, all tears will be wiped away, and the deficiency of our current experience of God will be forever gone. We will be one with Him, seeing Him face to face, experiencing the fullness of His glory and presence. This is the hope that fuels us as we continue on the journey of faith. Until that day comes, the vacuum within us reminds us to seek, to believe without seeing, and to trust that God will fill us with Himself in ways we cannot yet fully understand.

In addition to this glorious promise, Isaiah 25:8 provides a powerful image of God’s ultimate victory over suffering and death, enriching the eschatological picture of our future hope:

“He will swallow up death forever. The Sovereign Lord will wipe away the tears from all faces.” (Isaiah 25:8)

This verse expands on the hope given in Revelation, showing that death and sorrow will be completely vanquished. Not only will God be present with His people, but He will also defeat the very forces of suffering and death that have plagued humanity since the fall. In that day, there will be no more mourning, no more separation, and no more fear of death. God’s final victory over death is a promise that strengthens our longing for the future fulfilment, reminding us that our current longing is not in vain but is a preparation for the eternal joy that awaits us.

Until that day, the vacuum of longing within us is a reminder to seek Him with greater anticipation. It draws us forward, reminding us that the suffering and separation we experience now will be replaced by eternal communion and fulfilment with God. This longing, though painful, stirs in us a hope that transcends the present moment and fuels our perseverance, knowing that our future with God will be far more glorious than we can even comprehend.

Conclusion: The Blessed Longing

The vacuum within us is not a curse but a blessed longing—an invitation from God to enter into deeper communion with Him. This longing reflects both the loss of perfect fellowship with God in the Garden of Eden and the promise of restoration through Christ. As we long for God’s fullness, we are reminded that though it will not be fully realised until we are glorified, this longing is not a sign of abandonment but an active, divine invitation to seek Him with all our hearts.

This longing, though it can be painful, is a key part of our spiritual journey. It is through our yearning for His presence that we are drawn into a deeper knowledge of God and a fuller experience of His Holy Spirit. It is also through longing that we are shaped and transformed, as our faith is tested and refined through waiting and trials. The journey is not easy, but it is a journey that produces perseverance, hope, and spiritual maturity, leading us closer to the ultimate fulfilment we will experience when Christ returns.

As we press forward in faith, we cling to the hope of the “already-not-yet” Kingdom, where the Holy Spirit gives us a foretaste of the glory to come. Our longing reflects our pilgrim status in this world—it is a longing that fuels our perseverance as we await the future redemption of our bodies and the fulfilment of all things. Ultimately, we long for a day when the vacuum of longing will be filled with the fullness of God’s glory—a day when suffering and death are swallowed up forever, and we are fully united with Christ in eternal joy.

May we continue to seek Him in the midst of this blessed longing, knowing that He is faithful to fill the hearts of those who truly desire Him. In the waiting, in the longing, and in the seeking, we are being transformed into His image, and one day, we will see Him face to face in the fullness of His glory—and we shall be like Him (1 John 3:2).

Overcoming BESETTING SIN: A Call to Spiritual Maturity in Hebrews 12:1

In Hebrews 12:1, the Apostle challenges believers to live with perseverance, casting off everything that hinders their spiritual journey. This passage offers profound insight into the nature of sin and spiritual growth, especially when it speaks of “the sin which doth so easily beset us.” The phrase here invites us to reflect on how sin, particularly besetting sin, can hinder our walk with Christ. This article explores the meaning of besetting sin, its connection to iniquity, and the path to spiritual maturity that enables believers to overcome such entanglements, enriched with practical steps, broader context, and diverse perspectives on this timeless call.

Hebrews 12:1 – "The Sin Which Doth So Easily Beset Us

The verse says:

“Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us.”

This verse is part of a broader exhortation in the book of Hebrews, likely written to Jewish Christians facing persecution, urging them to stay faithful. It highlights the importance of laying aside any distractions or sin that slows us down in our spiritual race—a marathon of endurance, not a sprint, reflecting the athletic contests of their day. The specific sin described in this passage is one that entangles or ensnares us, hindering our spiritual growth and progress.

Understanding "Besetting Sin"

The phrase “beset” is translated from the Greek word “euperistaton” (εὐπερίστατον), meaning something that is easily surrounding, or entangling. It conveys the image of sin as something that easily encircles or ensnares a believer, preventing them from advancing in their faith and spiritual maturity.

So, what exactly is besetting sin? This term can refer to:

1. A Specific Temptation or Habitual Sin: Besetting sin is often seen as a recurring, habitual sin—a pattern or inclination that continually trips up the believer. It might be something like pride, anger, lust, lying, gossiping, covetousness, unforgiveness, or dishonesty—sins that seem to persistently ensnare the believer’s thoughts, actions, and attitudes. These are not occasional lapses, but rather persistent struggles that hold a believer back.

Besetting sins can also manifest as envy and jealousy, where a person continually desires what others have and feels resentment about their success or blessings. Addiction to substances, behaviors, or habits, such as pornography, gambling, or alcohol, can grip the believer’s life. Selfishness and self-centeredness may lead one to prioritize their own desires over others, while laziness and slothfulness prevent spiritual or physical growth.

A believer might also struggle with impatience and irritability, constantly feeling frustrated by others, or fear and anxiety, allowing worry to overshadow faith in God’s promises. Unbelief and doubt may plague the heart, causing one to question God’s goodness or provision. In other cases, pride in achievements or status can result in boasting and conceit, while greed and materialism drive one to focus on accumulating wealth or status instead of seeking God’s Kingdom. Some may wrestle with a lust for power or control, attempting to manipulate others or situations, or a critical spirit and judging others, constantly finding fault without offering grace.

Unforgiveness and bitterness often hinder spiritual growth, while deceit and hypocrisy make it difficult to live authentically. Lastly, the idolatry of comfort and convenience, or a lust for attention or approval, can lead a person to prioritize ease, pleasure, or validation over faithfulness to God.

These besetting sins are not isolated incidents but recurring struggles that require intentional effort, prayer, and accountability to overcome. They demand deep transformation by the Holy Spirit and continual reliance on God’s Word to break their hold and allow the believer to grow in spiritual maturity.

2. Iniquity (Lawlessness): The concept of besetting sin aligns with the biblical idea of iniquity—a deeply entrenched moral perversity that is not merely a one-time act of sin but a persistent condition. Iniquity speaks to lawlessness or rebellion against God, and it manifests in habits or attitudes that entangle the believer in sinful behavior. This sin may be so deeply ingrained in the believer’s nature that it keeps them from growing spiritually, often because they have not fully submitted to Christ’s transformative work. From this root, presumptuous sins (Psalm 19:13) can sprout—willful, arrogant acts of defiance, like rejecting God’s truth in pride or greed. While besetting sins entangle through habit, iniquity’s rebellion can fuel these bold transgressions, deepening our need for deliverance.

Yet, perspectives vary. Some scholars suggest “besetting sin” isn’t always a personal habit but a situational temptation—like the Hebrews’ pressure to abandon faith amid trials. Others see it as communal, with the “us” implying the church collectively shedding sins like division or apathy. These views enrich our grasp of the term, showing its depth beyond a single definition.

The Role of Sin and Iniquity in Spiritual Immaturity

The nature of besetting sin is often tied to spiritual immaturity. In Hebrews 5:13-14, the writer describes the difference between spiritual infancy and spiritual maturity, highlighting that immature believers are unskilled in the Word of righteousness and struggle with distinguishing good from evil. Just as an immature person may be unable to eat solid food, spiritually immature believers struggle with besetting sins—sins they are unable to overcome because they lack the maturity to discern what is good or right in God’s eyes. This reflects their place in sanctification—the lifelong process of becoming more like Christ, shedding sin for holiness.

– Spiritual immaturity can lead to habits of sin that persist in a believer’s life, as they are still caught in elementary principles and unable to grasp the fullness of the gospel’s power to deliver them from sin. These besetting sins can become habitual, often reflecting a lack of spiritual growth and understanding.

– Iniquity entangles a person because they have not yet fully learned to put off the old self and live in the freedom of Christ. Instead of relying on the gospel’s power to overcome sin, they may fall back into old patterns of rebellion and disobedience, unaware of the maturity and spiritual freedom that Christ offers.

Laying Aside Every Weight and Sin

In Hebrews 12:1, the command to “lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us” speaks to the deliberate action needed to free ourselves from what hinders our spiritual journey. Every weight refers to things that are not necessarily sinful in themselves but can still impede our progress—distractions, misplaced priorities, or even good things that consume too much of our attention. These can be anything from worldly pursuits to unnecessary anxieties. Some debate whether “weights” are distinct from “sin” or overlap—perhaps neutral burdens like cultural traditions or excessive busyness—but the call remains to shed them.

However, the besetting sin refers to the specific sin that ensnares or entangles us. These are the habitual or recurring sins that prevent us from running the race with endurance. This sin is often persistent and deeply ingrained, and overcoming it requires both spiritual maturity and intentional effort.

How do we lay these aside practically? Consider these steps empowered by Christ:

– Pray and Confess: Set aside time daily to name your besetting sin—be it lust or pride—and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal its roots and grant strength to resist (James 5:16).

– Engage Scripture: Memorize Hebrews 12:1-2 or Psalm 119:11 (“Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee”) and recite it when tempted, renewing your mind.

– Seek Accountability: Share your struggle with a trusted believer who can pray with you and check in regularly, fostering mutual encouragement.

– Replace Habits: If anger ensnares you, redirect that energy by serving others or journaling triggers to avoid future traps.

Thus, the call to lay aside every weight and besetting sin is an invitation to spiritual maturity—a growth that involves setting aside distractions and habitual sins that keep us from fully pursuing Christ. Freedom in Christ empowers us to overcome entangling sins and to live out our faith with perseverance.

The Race Set Before Us: Perseverance in Christ

The latter part of Hebrews 12:1—”let us run with patience the race that is set before us”—reminds us that the Christian life is a race of perseverance, requiring endurance and focus on the ultimate goal. The race symbolizes the journey of sanctification, in which believers are called to grow in spiritual maturity, leaving behind the sin that hinders and running towards the goal of Christlikeness—a marathon of trust, not a fleeting sprint.

– Overcoming besetting sin is part of the sanctification process—a continual movement toward spiritual maturity where we learn to trust in Christ and grow in our ability to overcome sin. The call to run with patience means that we will face challenges, temptations, and struggles along the way, but we are to remain focused on the prize—the high calling of God in Christ Jesus (Philippians 3:14).

– The focus on Jesus as the author and perfecter of our faith is crucial in overcoming besetting sin. We cannot win the race by our own efforts alone. Our victory over sin, iniquity, and spiritual immaturity comes through looking to Jesus, who has already secured the victory for us.

Traditions vary here: Catholics might emphasize sacraments like confession as aids, while Reformed believers stress God’s sovereign grace enabling triumph. Both affirm Christ’s centrality, deepening the verse’s call.

Conclusion: Overcoming Iniquity and Besetting Sin

The “sin which doth so easily beset us” is a vivid image of the entangling nature of iniquity—sins that persistently hinder the believer’s spiritual progress. Whether this refers to specific recurring temptations or a more pervasive struggle with iniquity, Hebrews 12:1 calls us to lay it aside and run the race with endurance, focused on Jesus as our strength.

Freedom in Christ means that we no longer need to remain ensnared by besetting sin. With the help of the Holy Spirit, the Word of God, and the community of believers, we are called to grow in spiritual maturity, discern good from evil, and ultimately overcome the iniquity and sin that once easily entangled us. The journey toward spiritual maturity requires perseverance, but it is through Christ that we are enabled to run with patience and endure to the end, experiencing the fullness of God’s righteousness and grace.

ESTHER’S Becoming: A Tapestry of Grace, Grit, and the CHURCH

Esther’s story isn’t a quiet footnote—it’s a bold stroke of divine art, pulsing with purpose. In Esther 2:9-12, she enters a year-long forge—12 months of purification that crown her a queen. She’s no mere symbol; she’s a woman shaped by struggle and grace, her journey running parallel to the Church’s own becoming. Together, they mirror a Bride refined for glory—one in Persia, one eternal.

The Forge of Twelve Months: A Shared Refining

Esther’s 12 months unfold deliberately—six with oil of myrrh, bitter and tied to sacrifice (John 19:39), six with sweet odors, fragrant with worship (2 Corinthians 2:15). Twelve rings of completeness—twelve tribes, twelve apostles—a season ordained. She “pleased” Hegai, who “speedily gave her things for purification” (Esther 2:9)—tools of transformation. The Church walks this road too: “I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:2). Both receive the same gifts—blood that cleanses (1 John 1:7; Hebrews 9:14), the Word that washes (Ephesians 5:26), the Spirit that sanctifies (1 Peter 1:2). For Esther, myrrh strips away exile’s scars; for the Church, it’s sin’s death. Sweet odors lift them both to beauty.

Christ’s own path seals the parallel—at “about thirty” (Luke 3:22-23), His three-and-a-half-year ministry ends at 33, His death the ultimate purification. Esther’s 12 months, symbolic not literal, align with this: a season of preparation for a kingly encounter, just as the Church is readied for the King of Kings.

Seven Maidens, Seven Churches: Strength in Unity

Esther’s seven maidens (Esther 2:9) aren’t props—they’re her backbone, echoing the seven churches of Revelation (Revelation 1:4, 12), golden candlesticks aglow. The Church mirrors this, built by “apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers” (Ephesians 4:11-12) “for the perfecting of the saints.” Esther’s favor with Hegai—her “kindness obtained”—shows her leaning into community; the Church grows the same way, refined not alone but together.

Mordecai’s Watch, Our Guide: The Spirit’s Thread

Mordecai “walked every day before the court of the women’s house, to know how Esther did” (Esther 2:11)—a steady presence, like the Holy Spirit who “abides with you” (John 14:16). He doesn’t dictate; he guides, trusting providence. Esther chooses to follow, her resolve hardening. The Church, too, yields to the Spirit’s nudge (Romans 8:26), both Bride and bride learning trust in the shadow of care.

Deepening the Tapestry: Esther and Us

Esther’s layers enrich the parallel. She’s Hadassah—“myrtle”—resilient, fragrant, linking myrrh and sweet odors. An orphan in exile, she rises; the Church, once scattered, is gathered. Vashti’s defiance (Esther 1:19) contrasts Esther’s surrender, as the world resists where the Church submits. Her later fast (Esther 4:16)—three days—echoes Christ’s tomb, tying her grit to our redemption.

Crowned and Glorious: A Dual Destiny

Esther steps before Ahasuerus, adorned, chosen—a queen by grace and guts. The Church follows: “He sanctifies and cleanses her with the washing of water by the Word, that He might present it to Himself a glorious Church, not having spot or wrinkle” (Ephesians 5:26-27). Esther’s 12 months forge her; the Church’s journey perfects her. Both bear the bitter and the sweet—myrrh and fragrance, blood and Spirit—into a shared unveiling.

Our Call in the Mirror

Esther’s not just a type—she’s a sister in the story. Her becoming bids the Church—and us—embrace the forge. Blood, Word, Spirit, and community shape us, step by gritty step, for the Bridegroom’s gaze.

MORDECAI Typifies the Holy Spirit

Mordecai and the Spirit: Preparing the Bride for Glory

Picture a story of tender care and divine purpose woven through an ancient tale. In the Book of Esther, Mordecai emerges not just as a guardian but as a striking type of the Holy Spirit—walking daily with Esther, guiding her through a season of transformation, much like the Spirit prepares the Church as Christ’s bride. This isn’t mere speculation; it’s a window into God’s sanctifying love, blending Old Testament shadows with New Testament light.

Twelve Months of Purification: A Divine Process

Esther 2:9-12 describes a deliberate 12-month purification for Esther and the maidens vying for King Ahasuerus’ favor—six months with oil of myrrh, a bitter balm of healing and burial (John 19:39), and six with sweet odors, evoking beauty and worship (2 Corinthians 2:15). Twelve resonates biblically—twelve tribes, twelve apostles—hinting at a complete, God-ordained season. For the Church, it mirrors sanctification: “I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:2). Esther “pleased” Hegai, who “speedily gave her things for purification” (Esther 2:9)—tools like myrrh and fragrances, paired with seven maidens. These echo God’s gifts to us: the blood that cleanses (1 John 1:7; Hebrews 9:14), the Word that washes (Ephesians 5:26), and the Holy Spirit who sanctifies (1 Peter 1:2). Myrrh signifies dying to sin; sweet odors, the fragrance of holiness.

This process finds a parallel in Christ Himself. At “about thirty” (Luke 3:22-23), He began a ministry lasting roughly three and a half years, culminating in His crucifixion—traditionally at 33—offering the ultimate purification. The 12 months aren’t literal here but symbolic of a purposeful season, just as Esther’s preparation led to her queenship.

Mordecai’s Vigilance: The Spirit’s Presence

Mordecai “walked every day before the court of the women’s house, to know how Esther did, and what should become of her” (Esther 2:11). This daily devotion typifies the Holy Spirit’s role—near, attentive, guiding. Jesus promised “another Helper, to be with you forever” (John 14:16), who “helps us in our weakness” (Romans 8:26). Jewish tradition honors Mordecai’s trust in God’s providence; early Christians like Origen saw Old Testament figures as foreshadows of greater truths. Mordecai’s care aligns with the Spirit’s mission to nurture the Church toward glory.

The seven maidens aiding Esther (Esther 2:9) recall the seven churches of Revelation (Revelation 1:4, 12)—golden candlesticks shining as one. They reflect the Spirit’s work through community, equipping us with “apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers” (Ephesians 4:11-12) “for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.” The Spirit orchestrates this, balancing the bitter (myrrh) and the sweet (fragrances) in our growth.

A Glorious Destiny: Spotless and Whole

Esther’s purification ended in her presentation to the king—a moment of honor. So too, the Church’s journey leads to a grand unveiling: “He sanctifies and cleanses her with the washing of water by the Word, that He might present it to Himself a glorious Church, not having spot or wrinkle, but holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:26-27). The Spirit, like Mordecai, ensures no step is wasted. The twelve months—six to purge, six to perfect—mirror this dual work: stripping away sin, cultivating virtue.

Living the Journey Today

We’re in that season now, guided by a Spirit who never leaves. Esther’s story invites us to trust the process—blood, Word, and Spirit at work within us, supported by the Church’s sevenfold light. Pause today: pray, “Holy Spirit, show me Your care,” and listen for five minutes. It’s a promise worth cherishing—a love that prepares us, step by step, for the King of Kings.