Be RECONCILED To God: Paul’s Anguished WARNING and the Path to MATURE Sonship

The church in Corinth was the most spiritually gifted congregation in the New Testament. Paul reminds them:

“You have been enriched in every way—in all your speaking and in all your knowledge… you do not lack any spiritual gift” (1 Corinthians 1:5–7).

Tongues, prophecy, miracles, bold preaching, deep insight—they had it all. If any church looked alive, thriving, and Spirit-blessed, it was Corinth.

Yet the same apostle who planted this church looked at it with tears in his eyes and terror in his heart. He feared that many of them—perhaps most—were on a fast track to hell.

He begged them as an ambassador of Christ: “Be reconciled to God” (2 Corinthians 5:20).

He commanded them:

“Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves… unless, of course, you fail the test” (2 Corinthians 13:5).

Reprobates. Counterfeits. Disqualified.

Paul was staring at a church overflowing with spiritual experiences and saying, in effect: “Some of you may not belong to Jesus at all.”

The Great Exchange—and the Great Danger

Everything hinges on the glorious truth of 2 Corinthians 5:21:

“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.”

Christ took our sin. We receive His righteousness—the greatest exchange in history.

But notice the little word “might.” That purpose was still hanging in the balance for many Corinthians because their lives were riddled with blatant sexual immorality, factions, pride, drunkenness at the Lord’s Table, and tolerance of false teaching. Gifts abounded. Grace? Paul wasn’t sure.

A Father in Travail

Paul writes as a spiritual father in agony:

“I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy… I am afraid that your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:2–3).

“My dear children, for whom I am again in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you” (Galatians 4:19).

He knew that spiritual gifts, powerful experiences, and even miraculous signs are no proof of salvation. Judas worked miracles. Saul prophesied.

Love, repentance, humility, holiness—these are the evidences that Christ is truly in you.

The Ongoing Call: Restricted Affections

Most often, “Be reconciled to God” is heard as a call to the lost. But Paul is addressing believers—those who have already received salvation. He is pleading with them to live fully in the reconciliation already won, not merely to possess it in theory.

Immediately after this plea, he diagnoses the problem: “You are not restricted by us, but you are restricted in your own affections… Widen your hearts also” (2 Corinthians 6:12–13).

The tragedy is not lack of teaching or gifting—it is narrowed hearts, misplaced desires, and divided loyalty. Believers can be anointed and orthodox yet closed to the full virtues of God because of unequal yoking with darkness, worldly alliances, and tolerated idols of the heart (2 Corinthians 6:14–16).

Justification is the doorway into new life, not the full inheritance. Reconciliation is believers continually aligning their hearts and affections with God. Without this ongoing participation, even the justified remain stagnant—spiritual babes rather than mature sons.

From Entry to Sonship: Milk to Meat

Like an heir who is still a child and differs nothing from a servant (Galatians 4:1), many Spirit-filled believers remain carnal and divisive (1 Corinthians 3:1–3). Sin’s legal power is broken, but voluntary submission to unrighteousness keeps them servants in practice.

Hebrews 5:12–14 warns that those who partake only of milk are unskilled in the word of righteousness and lack discernment. Solid food belongs to the mature, who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern good and evil.

True sonship requires:

– Yielding bodily members to righteousness

– Submitting to Spirit-led holiness

– Partaking in the divine nature

– Walking as children of light (Ephesians 5:8)

– Giving no place to the devil

This is not sinless perfection—it is Spirit-empowered transformation into mature sons who carry authority and experience the fullness of their inheritance.

Paul uses history as a sobering warning: Israel was redeemed, baptized in the sea, fed with manna—yet most fell in the wilderness (1 Corinthians 10:1–12). “These things happened as warnings for us… So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!”

The Narrow Path and the Faithful Remnant

Yet amidst widespread compromise, Scripture always highlights a faithful remnant—grieved within, aware of their weakness apart from Christ, trusting the Spirit rather than the flesh. These hidden ones watch, pray, and persevere, living close to Jesus even when the broader church is distracted or lukewarm.

They embody the narrow path—unseen, patient, and prepared.

Jesus’ question still pierces: “When the Son of Man returns, will He find faith on the earth?” (Luke 18:8).

A Trumpet Blast and Merciful Summons Today

We live in a church age intoxicated with gifts, experiences, and success—conferences overflow, worship is electric, testimonies dramatic. Yet many remain gifted but stagnant, forgiven yet indulgent, Spirit-filled yet lukewarm.

Paul’s question echoes across the centuries: “Do you not know that Jesus Christ is in you—unless indeed you are reprobates?”

Rich in gifts, poor in grace—this was Corinth’s peril. It may be ours.

But the Spirit’s grief is matched by mercy:

“Now is the acceptable time; now is the day of salvation” (2 Corinthians 6:2).

The Lord is longsuffering, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).

The summons to reconciliation is still active, still urgent, still merciful. Examination, repentance, widened hearts, and renewed obedience are invitations to restoration and maturity—not condemnation.

Hear the apostle’s heart-wrenching cry.

Examine yourself.

Be reconciled to God.

Widen your heart.

Grow into mature sonship.

Cling to Christ with everything you have.

Because love warns—and mercy calls.

Now is the acceptable time.

Now is the day of salvation.

 

The Two TONGUES: Why Millions of BELIEVERS Are Still WAITING for a Gift They ALREADY Have

For centuries, the church has debated the gift of tongues—whether it continues today, what it looks like, and why it matters. Many sincere believers have been taught that tongues ceased with the apostles, or that modern expressions are counterfeit. Others wait endlessly for a dramatic “Pentecost experience” that never comes, missing years of spiritual strength and freedom.

But a careful, mature reading of 1 Corinthians 14—especially verses 20-22—reveals a profound distinction that silences much of the confusion. Paul isn’t limiting or ending the gift; he’s clarifying two different expressions of tongues, one historical and public, the other deeply personal and ongoing. When we see this clearly, the arguments against tongues today crumble. And real-life testimonies prove the gift is as alive and powerful as ever.

Be Mature in Thinking: The Key to Understanding (1 Corinthians 14:20)

Paul begins this section with a direct challenge:

“Brothers and sisters, stop thinking like children. In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be adults.” (v. 20)

The Corinthians were acting childishly—enthusiastic about spiritual gifts but immature in how they used them. They prized public displays of tongues without interpretation, causing chaos and confusion in gatherings. Paul calls them to mature discernment: think like adults about how these gifts actually function.

What follows isn’t a restriction on tongues—it’s a sharp distinction that protects the gift’s true value.

The Two Tongues Distinguished (1 Corinthians 14:21-22)

Throughout the chapter Paul has been describing one primary expression of tongues:

“For one who speaks in a tongue speaks not to people but to God; for no one understands him, but he utters mysteries in the Spirit.” (v. 2)

“The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself…” (v. 4)

“If I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays but my mind is unfruitful.” (vv. 14-15)

This is prayer, praise, and singing from the human spirit enabled by the Holy Spirit—directed solely to God, often unintelligible to others (hence needing interpretation in public).

The clearest evidence that these Corinthian tongues were not always known human languages?

Paul’s direct command:

“Therefore, the one who speaks in a tongue should pray that they may interpret what they say” (14:13).

If tongues were always real foreign languages that someone present could naturally understand—like at Pentecost—supernatural interpretation would never be needed. Someone who knew the language could simply translate it. Yet Paul treats interpretation as a separate gift (vv. 5, 13, 27–28), even requiring silence in church if no interpreter is present. This proves the personal prayer language is normally unintelligible to human ears—it speaks mysteries directly to God.

Paul uses the Isaiah quote to caution against misuse: if you speak this personal Spirit-language loudly in church without interpretation, it will confuse outsiders—they’ll think you’re mad (v. 23), just like Israel’s hardened response to foreign speech. But that doesn’t negate the gift’s private, Godward purpose.

Paul quotes Isaiah 28:11-12:
“In the Law it is written: ‘With other tongues and through the lips of foreigners I will speak to this people, but even then they will not listen to me,’ says the Lord.’” (v. 21)

Then he applies it:
“Tongues, then, are a sign, not for believers, but for unbelievers; prophecy, however, is for believers, not for unbelievers.” (v. 22)

Here Paul draws a clear line between two expressions of the gift:

  1. Tongues as a Sign to Unbelievers (Xenolalia)
    This is the miraculous ability to speak real, unlearned human foreign languages for proclamation and authentication.

    • Classic example: Pentecost (Acts 2)—the disciples spoke known dialects from around the world, proclaiming God’s mighty works. The crowd heard in their native tongues, leading to amazement, conversions… and mockery from some.
    • This fulfilled Isaiah’s warning: God speaking to unresponsive Israel through “strange tongues,” confirming judgment while offering a final witness as the gospel expanded to Gentiles.
    • It was public, evangelistic, intelligible to hearers without interpretation, and tied to the apostolic transition era.
  2. Tongues for Personal Edification (The Language of the Spirit)
    This is not a sign to unbelievers at all. It is the language of your spirit enabled by the Holy Spirit—prayer and praise directed to God, edifying the speaker.

These are not the same. Conflating them leads to error. Maturity means recognizing the difference.

Paul’s Heart: He Wanted This Gift for Every Believer

Far from restricting tongues, Paul reveals his deep personal value for it—and his desire for all:

“I want every one of you to speak in tongues…” (v. 5)

“I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you.” (v. 18)
Yet from verse 19, most of this was private: “In the church I would rather speak five intelligible words… than ten thousand words in a tongue.”

“Do not forbid speaking in tongues.” (v. 39)

Paul practiced this personal prayer language abundantly for his own edification. He wanted the same for every believer—direct spirit-to-Spirit communion that builds faith (linking to Jude 20: “building yourselves up in your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit”).

There is no verse saying this personal expression ceases after the apostles or the canon. No expiration date. No “only for the sign era” clause.

The Analogy That Exposes the Truth

Every normal human is born with a mouth, tongue, and vocal cords—designed by God for speech. Yet not everyone speaks: some are mute by birth, illness, or choice. The capacity is universal; the manifestation is not.

Likewise, every born-again believer has a regenerated human spirit indwelt by the Holy Spirit (Romans 8:9-16). We all have the God-given “organ” for spiritual utterance. Paul wishes all would speak in tongues (14:5), but rhetorically asks, “Do all speak in tongues?” (12:30)—expecting “No,” acknowledging not all do, for various reasons: wrong teaching, fear, unbelief, or unwillingness to yield.

The gift is available to all. The manifestation comes through cooperation.

A Personal Testimony: From Years of Waiting to Sudden Freedom

One believer shares: For years, I didn’t speak in tongues. I believed it would “fall on me” like Pentecost—an external overwhelming. I waited and waited, but nothing came. Looking back, I could have avoided so much trouble and loss if I’d known how to pray in the Spirit.

I was looking outside when the Spirit was already in me, capable of utterance—just like natural speech. The difference between “waiting to receive a language” and “learning to speak” is ludicrous. Babies don’t wait passively; they babble and yield to the inner impulse.

One day, desperation cornered me. In a dark situation, human words failed—I didn’t even know what to pray (Romans 8:26). That evening, I felt strange syllables forming on my tongue (I’d felt them years before but resisted, thinking it madness). This time, I had no choice. I let it out—blabbered—and a force flowed—and something shifted. As I prayed and sang in the Holy Ghost, speaking mysteries to God, I felt it again: the weight on my chest lifting, every single time I prayed.

In one month, spiritual shackles that had bound me for years shattered. I was set free.

Only after tasting this can you understand the grief when someone calls it “not genuine” or “ceased.” You’ve experienced the edification Paul promised—the direct line bypassing mental limits, strengthening the inner man.

Living Proof: The Gift Is Still Alive Today

Consider a humble minister from a non-English-speaking country, invited decades ago to preach at a prestigious UK university. No formal education. Couldn’t form an English sentence. He trembled in fear but prayed continually.

As he stepped to the pulpit, he later said he didn’t remember what happened—the Spirit took over. He preached fluently for over an hour in proficient English. Afterward, people asked if he’d studied at Oxford or Cambridge.

This wasn’t the personal prayer language—it was xenolalia, the sign-expression for proclamation. But it happened decades ago, not in the apostolic era. The same Spirit who empowered Pentecost still equips His servants supernaturally today.

Burying the Anti-Tongues Arguments

Cessationists claim tongues (as real languages) were only a temporary sign to Israel and ceased. But this forces both expressions into one box, then declares the box closed—pure eisegesis.

  • No verse says the personal, self-edifying prayer language ends.
  • Paul practiced it more than anyone and wanted it for all—primarily in private.
  • The “sign” function (v. 22) was one expression; the Godward mysteries were another.
  • Paul repeatedly commands interpretation (14:13, 27–28)—something completely unnecessary if tongues were always naturally understandable foreign languages.
  • Patterns of “silence” in later epistles prove nothing—Paul already said not to forbid it.
  • 1 Corinthians 13:8-10 (“when the perfect comes”) is debated; many see it as Christ’s return, not the canon.

The overwhelming biblical evidence supports the gift’s continuation, especially the personal dimension for building faith.

Stop Waiting—Start Speaking

You don’t need another experience. The Holy Spirit already dwells in you. The capacity is there.

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly.

Rejoice in the Lord.

Give thanks always.

Be filled continually with the Spirit — speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord (Ephesians 5:18-19; cf. Colossians 3:16).

Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks (Luke 6:45).

And as Paul declares: “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart” — the word of faith (Romans 10:8).

When your heart is filled, the petals — the pearls — rise gently on the updraft of the Spirit.

They come to your mouth, ready to be spoken.

Jesus said, unless you become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of heaven.

So come as a child.

A child doesn’t invent words.

A child doesn’t wait for perfect coherence.

A child feels the sounds already on the tongue — placed there by God —

and simply spills them out.

Blabber.

Incoherent syllables.

Sounds that make no sense to the adult mind.

But the Father leans in…

smiles…

hears perfectly…

and celebrates every babble.

That’s how the Kingdom comes.

So worship.

Sing psalms and hymns.

Make melody in your heart to the Lord.

And when those spiritual syllables rise —

when the mysteries bubble up —

when the new songs form on your tongue —

don’t resist.

Don’t edit.

Don’t wait for it to sound logical.

Open your mouth like a child.

Blabber.

Spill it out.

Let your spirit pray.

Paul wanted this overflow for you.

The Holy Spirit still does.

Stop waiting.

Start rejoicing.

Start singing from a full heart.

Start blabbering like a child before your Father.

The pearls will come.

The Kingdom will open.

You will be filled — and overflow.

This is the Spirit-filled

When you feel those syllables rise—don’t resist. Open your mouth. Yield your tongue. Let your spirit pray. Cooperate with the utterance He gives (Acts 2:4).

Paul wanted this for you. The Spirit still does.

Taste it, and you’ll never settle for less. This glorious gift—praying mysteries, singing in the Spirit, building yourself up—is yours today.

Speak.

You Can’t FINISH the House with ONLY the BLUEPRINT. Why the Gifts of TONGUES and Prophecy Are STILL God’s Active Building TOOLS

When the English Bible says “edify one another,” most of us hear “say something encouraging” or “give a spiritual pep talk.”

That is far too thin.

The Greek verb is οἰκοδομέω (oikodomeō) — literally “to build a house.”

The noun is οἰκοδομή (oikodomē) — the act of building or the building itself.

Paul is not commanding compliments.

He is commanding us to act as skilled craftsmen on a lifelong construction site where God Himself is erecting “a holy temple in the Lord… a dwelling place for God by the Spirit” (Eph 2:21–22; cf. 1 Pet 2:5).

The question has never been whether God is still building His church.

The only question is: Which tools has the Master Architect left in the workshop?

Four Tools That All Perform the Same Kind of Building (οἰκοδομή)

1. The Word of His grace 

   Acts 20:32 – “…the word of His grace, which is able to build you up (οἰκοδομῆσαι) and to give you the inheritance…”

2. Your most holy faith 

   Jude 20 – “But you, beloved, building yourselves up (ἐποικοδομοῦντες ἑαυτοὺς) on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit…”

3. The love of God poured out in our hearts 

   Jude 21– “keep yourselves in the love of God…”

   Ephesians 3:17–19 – “…that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may… know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.”

   The love of God is not paint on the walls of a finished house; it is load-bearing. It is the living atmosphere in which the entire structure keeps rising to completion.

4. Tongues and prophecy 

   1 Corinthians 14:4 – “The one who speaks in a tongue builds himself up (οἰκοδομεῖ ἑαυτὸν), but the one who prophesies builds up the church (οἰκοδομὴν τὴν ἐκκλησίαν).”

   Ephesians 4:12 – gifts given “for the building up (οἰκοδομὴν) of the body of Christ.”

Same word family. Same construction site. Same divine project.

You no more “graduate” from tongues and prophecy than you graduate from the love of God or the Word of God.

Tongues: The Most Misunderstood Tool in the Box

Scripture actually distinguishes three biblical functions of tongues — every one of them serving οἰκοδομή:

1. Personal prayer language 

   “For the one who speaks in a tongue speaks not to men but to God; for no one understands him, but he utters mysteries in the Spirit… he builds himself up” (1 Cor 14:2–4).

2. Corporate message in tongues + interpretation 

   When interpreted, it becomes equivalent to prophecy and “edifies the church” (1 Cor 14:5.

3. Sign to unbelievers 

   Acts 2 and 1 Corinthians 14:22.

Paul’s personal practice is decisive:

“I thank my God I speak in tongues more than you all” (1 Cor 14:18), yet in the same chapter he commands, “Do not forbid speaking in tongues” (14:39).

The Standard Cessationist Objections — and Why They Collapse

Objection 1 – “The foundation of apostles and prophets has been laid; miraculous gifts were only for that phase.”

Answer: The apostles and prophets are the foundation (Eph 2:20), but the same Paul commands the entire Corinthian church — decades after Pentecost — to earnestly desire prophecy and not forbid tongues. He saw no contradiction.

Objection 2 – “When the perfect comes, the partial gifts cease” (1 Cor 13:8–10). 

Answer: The “perfect” is the return of Christ, when we will “know fully, even as I have been fully known” (13:12). Until then, we still see “in a mirror dimly.”

Objection 3 – “Modern tongues don’t match Acts 2 xenolalia.” 

Answer: Acts 2 is only one expression among the “diversities of tongues” (1 Cor 12:10, 28). Paul explicitly describes a form that “no one understands” except God (14:2) — precisely what most charismatics practice in private prayer.

Real οἰκοδομή vs. Counterfeit

Biblical prophecy and tongues will always:

– exalt Jesus, not the speaker

– call God’s people to holiness, not just happiness

– gladly submit to Scripture

– produce long-term Christlikeness, not short-term hype

Anything that smells like fortune-telling, political speculation, or material prosperity is not New-Testament οἰκοδομή.

The House Is Not Finished

God is still “fitting living stones into a spiritual house” (1 Pet 2:5; Eph 2:21–22).

The Word has not ceased.

Faith has not ceased.

The love of God poured out in our hearts has not ceased.

Therefore tongues and prophecy — same word-group, same category — have not ceased.

Stop calling God’s appointed building materials “dangerous.”

Stop forbidding what the apostle Paul refused to forbid.

Pursue love, and desire spiritual gifts — especially that you may prophesy.

And whatever you do, do not forbid speaking in tongues.

The construction site is still open.

The Master is still speaking.

Pick up every tool He hands you.

He is coming to live in the house we build.